sex on top...

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-26-2004
sex on top...
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Fri, 04-30-2004 - 11:35pm
Okay~ so my boyfriend occasionally wants me on top when we have sex. Which is fine, why make him do all the work on top all the time right?!?! Well I absolutly hate being on top, I really don't have an explanation for this, I just don't like it, it makes me feel weird and I honestly get nothing out of it. I am not always looking for pleasure myself and love giving to him but I would rather give to him in other ways.

HELP!!! I don't know what to do, any suggestions??
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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: naive101
Sat, 05-01-2004 - 12:57am

I think it can be akward/uncomfy/boring until we get the hang of it.

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Registered: 04-01-2003
In reply to: naive101
Sat, 05-01-2004 - 6:56am
It doesn't do anything for me either and it never has (I am almost 29). Its a little better if I face away from him on top but its really nothing at all special to me to be on top. Plus I am lazy! Try facing the other direction...see if that helps? I would rather do oral than be on top. Everyone is different.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: naive101
Sun, 05-02-2004 - 5:05pm
I too would recommend the Let's Talk About Sex board for questions like this!

Good luck...

Judie

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