Feeling good about my decision
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Feeling good about my decision
| Tue, 05-25-2004 - 10:51pm |
My sister well be 23 in a few weeks. She never had a "boyfriend". Never been on a date.
she works and goes to school and is doing really well. I am very proud of her. Recently she got hook up with this guy and things are going good. He is really nice to her and knows that she is a virgin. He brings her flowers they go out Blah blah blah. the thing is one night she came home with hickeys on her neck. My mother didn't really say anything to her about it but I told her it was time to go to the doctors. She came to my house and i made an appointment. We went and she started birth control. I still gave her plenty of talks letting her know that i didn't do it so she would have sex but incase she did i would feel better. (My mother doesn't know...she waited to long for me I got pregnant at 16) we are 8 years apart.Needless to say even though I still wanted my sister to wait she still had sex. I even told her that if u feel like you are going to do this i think you stiil should go to the clinic with him. and to my shock he agreed and even made an appointment. I feel good about getting her on the pill and talking to her but it is hard not tell my mother. It is up to my sister if she wants her to know. I just don't want my sister going crazy thinking that she can have sex with whoever she wants just because she is on the pill now. How can i talk to her without making her feel like she is a baby. she always says that. even though i try i still need help with her.
she works and goes to school and is doing really well. I am very proud of her. Recently she got hook up with this guy and things are going good. He is really nice to her and knows that she is a virgin. He brings her flowers they go out Blah blah blah. the thing is one night she came home with hickeys on her neck. My mother didn't really say anything to her about it but I told her it was time to go to the doctors. She came to my house and i made an appointment. We went and she started birth control. I still gave her plenty of talks letting her know that i didn't do it so she would have sex but incase she did i would feel better. (My mother doesn't know...she waited to long for me I got pregnant at 16) we are 8 years apart.Needless to say even though I still wanted my sister to wait she still had sex. I even told her that if u feel like you are going to do this i think you stiil should go to the clinic with him. and to my shock he agreed and even made an appointment. I feel good about getting her on the pill and talking to her but it is hard not tell my mother. It is up to my sister if she wants her to know. I just don't want my sister going crazy thinking that she can have sex with whoever she wants just because she is on the pill now. How can i talk to her without making her feel like she is a baby. she always says that. even though i try i still need help with her.

You earned a lot of 'good sister' points here.