Can u get pregnant from doing this ?

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Can u get pregnant from doing this ?
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Fri, 05-28-2004 - 7:56am
Hi me and my guy had dry sex, and he came in his pants, and his come was wet through his pants, while i was on top of him (i only had my underwear on) and i felt his cum on the side of my bikini line (that's how i knew that it went through coz he thought it didn't go thru his pants at first), and i also realised a damp patch on the top right hand corner of my underwear. However it did not go anywhere near my vagina. Is there a chance that i could get pregnant from that ?

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 10:05am
not likely. but be more careful............ :)

take care!

katie
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Fri, 05-28-2004 - 10:16am
highly unlikely
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Registered: 05-25-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 11:21am
You probably didn't get pg from that, but be more careful. You might want to look into getting on birth control because when you start messing around like that it can turn into sex and fast. Better to be safe than sorry.

HOpe it works out for you.

Jaime
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Registered: 05-03-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 11:24pm
thanx so much for all your replies and comments. It was greatly appreciated !! hope everything goes well for all of you's. Take care.
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Registered: 05-14-2004
Fri, 05-28-2004 - 11:28pm
... scratching head...

Sometimes you really have to wonder if women today really even understand how exactly a "baby is made"... Is there no sex-ed in schools anymore?

~*~Jenn~*~

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Fri, 05-28-2004 - 11:45pm
Thanx so much for everyone's reply and posting.

I'm 18, and coming from an asian family background, my mum talks to me abt sex, but not much abt pregnancy, as she believes there isn't a need to talk abt that with me until i get married. and if i keep asking her q's abt pregnancy she'll start getting suspicious. according to our beliefs you don't have sex until you're married. i am still a virgin and plan on staying that way until i find the right guy and marry him. Sex is a special thing and i wouldn't just give away my virginity like that. My guy understands that, which is why we have dry sex. and it is true that my understanding of the risks of pregnancy and sex in general is not very clear. I tried ringing up family planning in my state, but they're closed on the w/ends.

I appreciate all the postings made on my discussion. I've been worried abt getting pregnant twice already, and believe me, i hate going through all that worrying again. it is painful and emotionally straining! Last time it was coz my guy got precum near my vagina and i was stressed abt that, so i took a home pregnancy test twice and it was negative. but then my period was late so i stressed abt that accuracy and reliability of the test, but finally my period came, and i realised it was only coz i was stressing so much which made it late. which i had hoped it would be.

Anyway, i am not ready to have a baby atm. I believe in the traditional upbringing of a family and raising children after you are married. That's just my opinion and belief, i know some of u's dont' have the same opinion and i respect that.

Well, take care, and thank-you so much for your input and comments.

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Sat, 05-29-2004 - 12:20am
Hi azn_chick, welcome!

I certainly respect your beliefs. But you should understand that if you keep playing around without using an effective form of protection there is a good chance that you could get into trouble. One thing leads to another and before you realize it his fluids are on/in you and you are at risk. It's better to be safe than sorry, right?

Good luck

      Jill

    

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Registered: 05-14-2004
Sat, 05-29-2004 - 12:33pm
Hey :)

I just wanted to say welcome to the board and that I hope you stick around. There are a lot of great women here who you can learn a lot from and who will do everything they can to give you great advice and direction.

I'll also agree with Jill, like I always do, that you really need to get yourself on some reliable birth control. In the heat of the moment, things can happen and its SOO hard to stop yourself. I know, I've been there too! I think all of us have at some point! Like Jill said, its much better to be safe than sorry. If you have trouble getting ahold of the planned parenthood in your area, try just going to see your family doctor. When I first started on birth control at 17, my Dr was great. He gave me my first 3 months free and guaranteed to me that my parents would NOT find out.

I also wanted to say that I respect your beliefs about sex and marriage. BUT I have to point out to you that just because you aren't having actual intercourse with your BF, doesn't mean that you aren't having some form of "sex" with him already. If you're having "dry sex" with him, I'm thinkin' theres a pretty good chance that you're also sharing manual and oral sex with him as well. My point is that if it *is* your belief to save sex for marriage, then you should stand by that belief and save ALL sex for marriage. Don't hide behind your ideals - stand beside them.

~*~Jenn~*~

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Sun, 05-30-2004 - 9:01am
Yeah you do have a good point there, but i guess it's too late now! Well, i was also wondering what form of birth control you recommend ? As i don't plan on having intercourse with my bf, however we do have other forms of sex as u mentioned. We use condoms, but that's only if i intend on having his penis anywhere near my vagina at all. I dont' want to go on the pill coz of the side and health effects it can give you. Any suggestions?
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Sun, 05-30-2004 - 10:08am
Hi azn_chick,

If you are going to have penal/vaginal intercourse then you should be using an effective form of contraception such as the pill, patch or ring or a vaginal barrier like a diaphragm or cervical cap. If you are just looking for back-up for playing around with no penetration, then a good vaginal spermicide or the sponge (Today and Protectaid) would probably be sufficient. If the sponge isn’t available in a pharmacy nearby you can get them on the Internet. As I mentioned before, there is a real danger that while playing around the situation can get out of control very quickly so if I were you I would start protecting myself now.

Good luck

      Jill

    

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