im 13 and need advise about sex w/ my bf

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Registered: 07-15-2004
im 13 and need advise about sex w/ my bf
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Thu, 07-15-2004 - 12:34am
OK... Im 13, I mean, my friend is 13... im 18. and my (her) boyfriend (15) is at my house helping me write this right now. We figured this would be a good place to ask about this because ya'll probibly know alot about this subject.

See, we wanna do it. Soon. Like now.

Just to clarify, im not a ho. The two of us have been best friends since we were in diapers, and since last yr, weve been dating exclusivly. At the end of last school year, we got really close... doing really sexual stuff anywhere and everywhere we could (science class, basketball games, under the slide in the playground... you get the idea),

so were not shy around eachother or anything. We both feel ready (whatever that means). Weve even seen eachother naked before.

And getting comdoms are not a problem; hes got like five of them from his older bro. But I've heard that they can break easily, and when we asked his brother about that, he said it was true and even a little bit of jizz could make you catch pregnant, or get vd.

Were both virgins, even though he hates to admit it... and were both clean... but neither of us are dumb.

So what i'm asking is, what should we do?

should we go for it, or just keep doing what we usually do for a few more years. How old is old enough??

And what can we do to keep the condom from breaking? What constitutes "ready"??

Just any info ya'll have to offer will really help us out... thanks so much!

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 07-15-2004 - 7:47am

As much as we'd like to steer you on the right course, we can't do it here!

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