HELP ME...PLEASE!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2004
HELP ME...PLEASE!
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Thu, 08-05-2004 - 3:16am
OKay.......let me clarify it all: June 20-27th I had my period. July 4th my boyfriend may have ejaculated alittle on my vagina while in the shower. It wasn't until about the 10th or so that we allowed just the tip of his penis inside me.(okay, so maybe thet was sex), but it is the withdrwl method, then, correct. (please remember i am totally new to all this...please don't bite my head off....I am really just desperate for help!) HE did NOT ejaculate inside me...later on, ontop of the bed. We cleaned up. A while later he did insert his fingersinto my vagina. I did not know at the time that sperm is in pre-ejaculate. Now I am terrified. I realy am very far away from any center...no place to even buy a test. I have no car....but for the time being I really what your Honest-to -God advice....and maybe some positive encouragement. I have previously been on birth control (for my face), have been in another country, had a death in the family 4 months ago, and have been a bit more active....could it just be for any of these reasons???

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2004
In reply to: ilevi12
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 10:27am
Hi,



So let me clarify you havent had a period until june? Stress can most defintly delay your period. Try to relax. It is possible you could have gotten pregnant but the chances are very slim. If you dont get an august period i would call your doc. He could perform a PG test and if it is negative he can help you figure out what is going on. Hope this helps.


Missy

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-27-2004
In reply to: ilevi12
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 2:20pm
Hey! Just relax for two seconds. You may not have gotten your period because of stress, but you can't forget the fact that pregnancy is a possibility althought highly unlikely. He did not ejaculate inside of you so the chances of you being pregnant are very very slim. Have you been eating right latetly? Not eating a lot or right can also cause your period to be late...just something else to think about.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: ilevi12
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 3:22pm
I agree-it is POSSIBLE to become pregnant that way...but by your descriptions a slight chance-but remember it only takes 1 time....But stress can make your periods irregular...good luck
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2004
In reply to: ilevi12
Fri, 08-06-2004 - 12:38am
You guys on this particular message board are the first to actuallyl help me calm down rather than heighten the tension. I thank you so much for that. Everywhere I was turning for help was just freaking me out way more. So thanks for understanding a difficult (and scary) situation. Yes I had my period AFTER I stopped taking birth control. I had in both may (right after my last pack---so everything was running normal) then I did have it in June.....but now not since....and this whole "messing around" has just made me (hopefully) overreact. Now would be the most horrible time in my life to have a child. Everything has been so turned upside down as is. So thank you.