HELP!!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2004
HELP!!!!
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Thu, 09-16-2004 - 5:52pm
please sum 1 help me im 13 and i realy like this guy who is a little bit older than me and i think im readly to have sex with him and hes ready he said the only way hell have sex with me is if i get birth confrol first i realy like him and i want to have sex but i dont know how my mother will react some 1 HELP!!!!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: mheyne
Thu, 09-16-2004 - 8:15pm
I understand why your mom probably wouldn't react well to you having sex. You are still a young girl and sex can have life altering consequences. The emotional effects of having sex are difficult enough to deal with when you are young. Then there are things like pregnancy and diseases that can kill you.

Please wait to have sex. If you have urges now, learn to masterbate. Save sex for when you are older, at least until you are 17 or so.

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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: mheyne
Thu, 09-16-2004 - 9:01pm
Hi mheyne,

I'm sorry Hon., iVillage’s Terms of Service don’t allow anyone below the age of 18 to post on this board. We do refer teens to more age-appropriate sites: www.teenwire.com is a very good site for teens that is run by Planned Parenthood. www.cosmogirl.com and www.bolt.com are also on our list of sites recommended for teens and scarleteen.com http://www.scarleteen.com/ and gurl.com http://www.gurlpages.com/ are two others that are pretty good. Even though teens can't post here, we can't stop you (or anyone else) from reading the vast quantities of information that we do provide. For most people's questions, the answers are here, all it takes is a little looking. Ask your questions on some of the sites I've mentioned above.

Take care and hugs,

      Jill