Diaphram newbie... please help...
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Diaphram newbie... please help...
| Mon, 04-10-2006 - 3:08am |
After personal convictions that involve the slight possibility of abortion even on the pill (which I am on now), I am considering the option of a diaphram... but it sounds kind of unpredictable to me. I have been told by several gynocologists that the risk remains while on the pill for there to be a very early abortion if the pill did not do its initial job and prevent fertilization... it is also formulated to take out the fertilized by not letting it implant in the womb... which I just can't have on my conscience. plus, I've gained 10 lbs on the pill hehe. So I was just wondering if anyone thought a diaphram would be a smart alternative and if it hurts or falls out of place or could even get stuck somehow? it just seems iffy to me. Thanks.

Be aware....as you're making this decision....that there is no scientific evidence that the pill prevents implantation of a fertilized egg.
Hi lovelymsunderstood, welcome!
I totally agree with cl-judie!
A diaphragm or cervical cap can be a very effective method of contraception if properly fitted and used consistently and correctly. Since you are interested in cervical barriers there is a post in our FAQs about diaphragms and cervical caps.
It will be 4 years in June since I came off BCPs. I’m on my 48th cycle using a cervical cap as my primary method and a diaphragm for flow control and contraception during my menses and I love how well that combination has worked for me. I love cycling naturally and haven’t had any pregnancy scares at all.
A properly fitted and inserted diaphragm is very unlikely to dislodge and with a little practice insertion and removal is a snap so there is no danger at all of it getting stuck. I think a diaphragm might be just what you are looking for and a great method for you.
If you decide to get a barrier the first thing you should do is find the most knowledgeable, experienced and supportive fitter you can. Once you have a properly fitted barrier you should develop a wearing regimen that fits your lifestyle so that you aren't caught unprotected. Your wearing regimen is as important in its way as a proper fit as 'user failure' (using your barrier incorrectly or not consistently) is the single largest reason for unintended pregnancies with diaphragms or cervical caps.
Thanks for posting. If you have more questions, please ask. Let us know what you decide, ok?
Good luck,
Jill