Dryness, need advice plz

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Registered: 12-30-2002
Dryness, need advice plz
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Mon, 07-03-2006 - 1:12pm

Hi all, i have a question

Well its been about 7 months since i last had sexual intercourse. I almost forgot what its like ha ha .. Anyway, Ive been talking with this guy, and tonight he asked me to come by his house. However, im so nervous because im afriad that i will be extremely tight, and since this is our first time together, im too embarrased to use lubrication. I dont get wet, i'm on birth control, but ive never been able to really produce any lubrication. With my x bf it was comfortable, so i didnt mind having to use it. Even if i am turned on, i dont get wet. And im really nervous because i dont want this to be awkward. IE- not going in, hurting, dry..etc. Any suggestions?! Im so shy about it that it actually hinders me wanting to be intimate.

thanks!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-30-2003
Mon, 07-03-2006 - 3:00pm

Hi

      Jill

    

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Wed, 07-05-2006 - 7:28am

I agree, though it might be awkward, using a lube is important if you want this to be a good experience for the both of you.

Judie Cl for Birth Control