I need some words from the wise!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 09-06-2004
I need some words from the wise!!!!!!!!
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Thu, 08-24-2006 - 11:44pm

Hello All!

Ok I need some advice! It's been awhile since I've been on the discussion board but that's beside the point. Tonight my boyfriend and I decided to have sex. He didn't have any condoms with him so his best friend had some so he (my b/f) got one of his! First of all, I'm not on the pill anymore, I've been off of it for a lil' over a year now, secondly, I don't have sex without a condom b/c of the pregnancy & STD's issues! Ok so we're having sex and I changed positions and he slipped outside of me (that happens) but whenever he went to almost put it back in the condom had slipped off inside me and was hanging out...that's never happened to me! I got scared and paranoid and he said I didn't get off you have nothing to worry about, he said if I did we'd both need to be worrying! I trust him with my last breath, but I'm still scared! Can I get some advice and hopefully encouraging words from the wise one's on here???? The thing is, I'll be 20 the 5th of Sept, I'm a full time college student with a full time job. I'm also the baby in the family (there's 4 including myself) and that puts a lot of pressure on me b/c how do I put this, my older siblings have ruined their lives in all honesty! Please send me some comfort and advice!!!!!

Thanks
Em

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Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 12:46am

Hi emmer86, welcome!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 12:51am

Hi emmer86,


There is sperm in pre-ejaculate, so if that got out of the condom and inside of you, then yes, there is a very small chance you could get pregnant.

 


 


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Registered: 09-06-2004
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 4:58am
I am due for my period at the very beginning of September! My last cycle started on the first day of August. Does that make any difference?
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Registered: 12-30-2003
Fri, 08-25-2006 - 11:36am

Hi again emmer86,


      Jill