Am I pregnant?

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Registered: 11-20-2006
Am I pregnant?
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Mon, 11-20-2006 - 10:41am
Please can someone help me- I'm only 15 and I'm really scared that I'm pregnant. My boyfriend's older than me and we are very much in love but we've agreed that we're not going to have sex until I'm 16. We've kept to that, but sometimes we get caught up in the moment and go quite far. Please could someone tell me whether I can get pregnant by him just putting the tip of his penis against me? My period was due yesterday and I'm just starting to worry a little... Please help me I'm really scared- I really can't get pregnant now- I'm very academic and it would ruin my life...
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Registered: 08-12-2002
In reply to: hemitsu
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 3:05pm

Yes, it is possible, but very unlikely.

 


 


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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: hemitsu
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 3:06pm

Hi hemitsu, welcome to the birth control board!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 11-20-2006
In reply to: hemitsu
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 4:03pm
Thank you for your help,
First of all, my cycles are usually regular, and I am only one day late... which isn't unusual- I'm just getting a little paranoid...
We did the matter in concern the day before I was meant to start my period... I'm not sure what that means fertile wise- sex education at school is terrible.
For the protection side of it- He's out right as I type buying condoms- we've talked and we're not going to do anything else like that until we get some.
Before I told my mum- she's like my best friend and was really supportive- she wasn't upset, or mad, or told me i was stupid- it was just as if it was a normal thing- she said she's been there herself so if my period doesnt start within a week we're going to get a pregnancy test.
I feel alot calmer now... I think that how stressed i've got about it all hasn't helped...
Thank you for all your help, I will keep you informed
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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: hemitsu
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 5:53pm

Thanks for the update hon. I'm so glad your mom is supportive, that is such

      Jill

    

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Registered: 07-01-2005
In reply to: hemitsu
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 6:03pm

I hope that you arent pregnant because you are so young yet. Just try to not stress about it because stress can cause you to be late too. I was always worried about pregnancy when I was your age too and I went on birth control pills after my mom caught me and my boyfriend having sex. after that I wasnt as worried about getting pregnant because I knew I had something in addition to the condoms we were using to prevent pregnancy. I am happy that your mom is so understanding about all of this. If you are worried about an unplanned pregnancy why dont you ask your mom to take you to the doctor to get some form of birth control in addition to condoms because then you will be safer then.

Angela

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Registered: 11-20-2006
In reply to: hemitsu
Tue, 11-21-2006 - 2:22am
Thank you for all your help- my period started this morning and I don't think I've ever been happier.
I will be checking out the sites, thanks for the info and I'm definitely going to be alot more careful with what I do.
Thank you everyone for being such great support.
Zo
*big hugs for everyone*