tubal

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Registered: 03-20-2006
tubal
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Sat, 12-02-2006 - 9:19pm
I just had my 3rd son on Nov 13. After much discussion, my husband and I decided that our family was complete and a day after my son's birth I had a tubal. My pregnancy was very uncomfortable and I do feel that the size of our family is perfect. Is it normal to be depressed about having the surgery? I guess I feel a sense of loss. Before if I wanted to get pregnant all I had to do is stop taking my bc, now I CAN'T (which was the obvious point of the surgery) I just didn't expect to have all these emotions and sad feelings. Am I going out of my mind or has someone else experienced this same thing?

~Laura~

Proud mommy to Brandon Donald-10, Gavin Ellis-5, and Kason Leander-2

&nb

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Registered: 01-26-2005
In reply to: lharnish22
Sat, 12-02-2006 - 9:39pm
I went through similar thoughts....Due to my health concerns we have only been able to have one child.I had a tubal in May...Even though I knew it was for the best I still felt a sense of loss and sadness.
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