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Registered: 01-25-2006
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Thu, 12-28-2006 - 9:14pm
I wanted to know if anybody else had experience that your guy withdrew from you,your were in your fertile days,did u get pregnant or not?If anyone could share something with me about that? PLEASE!
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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: jessicag2006
Thu, 12-28-2006 - 10:57pm

Hi again jessicag2006, welcome back!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 01-25-2006
In reply to: jessicag2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 8:41am
Ok
I have decided not to take the morning after pill after all. I counted my days. They are not certain. Supposedly 8 days after your period your infertile,then 7 days when your fertile, and 13 days afain when your infertile. I think I did it right around the corner of the first seven days of not infertile. but i have an irregular cycle. Now,I have a question,is it irregular around the first few days of not being infertile,or the days of fertile,or the last days of not being infertile?Can it be irregular around one of those days?Does anybody know that can help me please!
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Registered: 01-25-2006
In reply to: jessicag2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 8:46am
If i'm pregnant can i use a pregnancy test now to see if i'm pregnant?is it possible to know now?if not?when is it possible to take it to know if i'm pregnant!?
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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: jessicag2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 11:21am

Hi again jessicag2006,


      Jill

    

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Registered: 01-25-2006
In reply to: jessicag2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 6:18pm

Hi
I didn't understand the following part: I have this link where you can see the menstural cycle. If you can explain it to me by that, I would understand it better. I think I get it, but I want to be sure!

This is the link!
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.fhi.org/pic/mencycle.gif&imgrefurl=http://www.fhi.org/en/RH/Pubs/Network/v17_1/nt1712.htm&h=315&w=314&sz=22&tbnid=TiiYEGY8ZUzWSM:&tbnh=117&tbnw=117&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dovulation%2Bcycle&start=3&sa=X&oi=images&ct=image&cd=3

The part of your cycle that is most likely to vary is the interval from the start of your period (the first day of flowing red blood) to the time you ovulate. The most regular part of your cycle will be the 14-16 days after ovulation when you are in the luteal phase of your cycle and your progestin is highest. At the end of the luteal phase, when your progestin drops, you have your period and begin a new cycle.

Thanks!

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Registered: 08-11-2004
In reply to: jessicag2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 10:13pm

You're making an awful lot of assumptions. If you don't mind becoming pregnant, then it's not a big deal. If it would be a problem, then you're taking a big risk.

The average woman would be expected to ovulate something like 14 days after the beginning of her period. That's not certain however. It could be as early as 7 days after the beginning of her period if it turned out to be a short cycle that month, or it could be much later than that. When you also consider that conception can occur several days after sex, there just isn't much ability to rely on counting days unless the woman has been regularly charting her cycles by looking at cervical mucus and basal body temperature. That means that sex during your period or at any point afterwards could possibly result in a pregnancy depending on when ovulation happened that month.

Since your cycles are irregular, that makes things even harder to predict. You absolutely can't rely on online calendars to tell you anything. If you've decided that you want to risk becoming pregnant by not getting emergency contraception, then you can take a pregnancy test in two to three weeks and you should get an accurate result by then.

If you haven't ovulated yet, then taking emergency contraception can prevent that from happening and dramatically reduce your chance of becoming pregnant. You could still try to go get it. It's best taken without 3 days, but can possibly work up to 5 days.

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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: jessicag2006
Fri, 12-29-2006 - 10:34pm

Hi again jessicag2006 ,


      Jill

    

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Registered: 01-25-2006
In reply to: jessicag2006
Sat, 12-30-2006 - 3:22am
My cycle from sept to oct lasted 31 days, oct-nov: 33 days,nov-dec:26/27 days. So i'm very irregular!So,i'm worried,it could be that this time i have a short cycle or a long cycle. I get it now,thank you very much for your time for explaining it to me!I appreciate it,I guess I have to wait and see,I think i'm gonna take a pregnancy test.Even though I have a gut feeling that it's okay,but I don't like to say anything just yet.So,let's see,thanks again! :-)
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Registered: 10-21-2006
In reply to: jessicag2006
Sat, 12-30-2006 - 6:31am
Withdrawal alone doesn't work well. I think you have a 40% chance of getting pregnant. That's how I ended up pregnant with my son Vincent! ;)
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Registered: 12-30-2003
In reply to: jessicag2006
Sat, 12-30-2006 - 11:21am

Hi again hon,


      Jill