freaking out.. PLEASE help
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freaking out.. PLEASE help
| Sat, 12-30-2006 - 2:07pm |
Hi.
a week ago i lost my virginity to my boyfriend. i am 18 and a senior in high school. i am not on birth control, but we used a condom and did everything right. he put it on before anything sexual started to happen, and he pulled out before he came. i over-analyze things and have been freaking out the past week. i keep thinking about what if im pregnant? i mean i shouldnt be but i cant help these thoughts- i am NOT ready to have a baby. i've been so scared i've actually made myself sick to my stomach. i talked to my boyfriend and we arent having sex again until i am on birth control pills. but until then.. i am so scared! my mestrual cycle is around 25-29 days, and i should be starting within the next week, but if i dont start early like usual, i am going to freak out. i guess you can call this discussion venting, but i cant help it. i don't really need any advice i just need to know if i am thinking too much into this. should i be this scared? is it possible for me to be pregnant even though we used a condom and did everything right? i just need to know that it's going to be okay, so if anyone with more experience out there would like to tell me something, it would be greatly appreciated. thank you so much.
a week ago i lost my virginity to my boyfriend. i am 18 and a senior in high school. i am not on birth control, but we used a condom and did everything right. he put it on before anything sexual started to happen, and he pulled out before he came. i over-analyze things and have been freaking out the past week. i keep thinking about what if im pregnant? i mean i shouldnt be but i cant help these thoughts- i am NOT ready to have a baby. i've been so scared i've actually made myself sick to my stomach. i talked to my boyfriend and we arent having sex again until i am on birth control pills. but until then.. i am so scared! my mestrual cycle is around 25-29 days, and i should be starting within the next week, but if i dont start early like usual, i am going to freak out. i guess you can call this discussion venting, but i cant help it. i don't really need any advice i just need to know if i am thinking too much into this. should i be this scared? is it possible for me to be pregnant even though we used a condom and did everything right? i just need to know that it's going to be okay, so if anyone with more experience out there would like to tell me something, it would be greatly appreciated. thank you so much.

Hi caryyy2, welcome to the Birth Control board!
Jill
Please relax. My husband and I use condoms all the time. We don't use Birth control pills. I have never gotten pregnant with the condom. The only chance of getting pregnant with the condom is if it breaks. And by the way, stress may cause your period to be late. I would wait until about next weekend and if you still don't have a period then I would try a pregnancy test. I think it's highly unlikely that anything happened as long has the condom was used correctly and none of his secretions got around your vaginal area. Take care of yourself. PLease keep me updated!!
Laura
Hi again hon, welcome back!
Jill