my boyfriend and his condoms

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Registered: 01-30-2007
my boyfriend and his condoms
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Wed, 01-31-2007 - 11:50am

you would think a boy, of 16 years old would be, let say, happy? to be able to have unprotected sex and not h his girlfriend pregnantave a worry in the world about getting his girlfriend pregnant, well i said to my bf "once im on BCP's for a littlw while we can have unprotected sex and not have to worry about me getting pregnant" and what did he say?

he said NO.....im confused
he still wants to use condoms, we both like having sex without a condom, but never for to long incase he comes.

it is safe to have sex without a condom(but him coming inside of me) and me on BCP's right? no chance of me getting pregnant right?

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Registered: 01-31-2007
Wed, 01-31-2007 - 12:00pm
BCP are not 100% effective. I know several ladies who have gotten pregnant while on BCP's. If he does not want to wear a condom he should withdrawel before he ejaculates! It has worked for my husband and me!



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Registered: 12-30-2003
Wed, 01-31-2007 - 2:23pm

Hi again queenchaos16, welcome back!


      Jill

    

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Wed, 01-31-2007 - 5:20pm

Have you started BCPs already?

 


 


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Registered: 03-22-2004
Wed, 01-31-2007 - 6:07pm

hey, I'm just jumping in with everyone else. Having unprotected sex is sooooooo not a good idea. As a matter of fact it is a terrible idea. lol DON'T DO IT. For all the reasons given. It's just that simple. DON'T.

And you know, at 16, I wouldn't worry or especially criticise him for insisting on a condom. He's being a LOT more responsible than a LOT of bone headed, irresponsible, 25 - 30+ year old guys that I know. No kidding. You'll find as you get older and go away to school and stuff, if YOU'RE NOT RESPONSIBLE for YOURSELF, NO GUY will be. Never leave home without them. And in that environment it's not just pregnancy, it's STDs. Condoms are a girls best friend and nothing to be turned off about at all.

Just becareful and listen to these women's advice. It's nothing to fool with.

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Registered: 03-26-2005
Sat, 02-03-2007 - 5:36pm

my mom got pregnant while on the pill!!!!


be careful. it is not

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