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Unwanted Pregnancy
| Mon, 05-07-2007 - 8:26pm |
I just found out that I am pregnant. My fiance and I feel that we are not ready this. I still have a little bit of school left, we're planning a wedding in 08, and we just aren't financially ready. I feel really selfish though, because we have decided to have an abortion. I feel like we are better off then a lot of people who actually go through with having a baby but just because its not when we planned, its not right for us. Also, i was hoping to have a medical abortion, but was told I might be too far along for that. I am estimated at 5 1/2 weeks and my appointment is not until next week. So, that is cutting it close. I am really scared about having a surgical abortion! this is all too real for me. Any adivce ?
Aeva

Hi aeva14, welcome!
Jill
Whereas, a lot of women 'accidently' get pregnant, and just have abortions. I think its unfortunate considering the amount of people who would do anything to be able to get pregnant.
im not sure if you made your choice already but do need to do what's right for you...
it might sound selfish but im sure in the end you know why you did it... its ok to have an abortion up to 6 1/2 wks because the heart is not beating yet.... so you are safe on that. just think it thru and don't look back. continue with your daily life and learn from what you don't want to happen again. but think long and hard.
good luck and remember its your mind body and soul.