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Condom Situation
| Thu, 06-28-2007 - 12:01pm |
I have only had a few partners and rather than being smart and using condoms, they always pulled out (not the safest way to prevent pregnancy, I know!). Now my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex. While we are engaged in foreplay, I am very excited both mentally and physically. Yet it seems about 5 minutes after he puts on a condom, I am not longer wet. This has happened a couple times and is very frustrating. I don't know if it is a mental think (I HATE condoms), because I have had such limited experience with condoms or what it is. Any suggestions would be appreciated! Thanks!
Rachel

condoms dry me out too. A little lube helps a lot :) There are many kinds so try them out until you find one you like. Don't use any oil based lubes though. They will ruin the condom.
Right now I like the KY warming mist. I hate touching it, but with that it can just be sprayed and is less messy to use. I also have a couple from Pure Romance that I like. There flavored lubes are actually good flavored (food grade flavoring used instead of cosmetic flavoring), and they have a great lube for the shower that won't wash away or ruin condoms. There is also a regular lube by Pure Romance that refreshes itself.
Rachel