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| Tue, 12-23-2003 - 10:04pm |
So here's a dumb question.
My husband and I have been split up for over a year. He is like my best friend but if we sleep together it is just hell. So we are still legally married. I am falling in love with a great guy and while I am not ready to commit to him he makes me happy. So my husband tells me today that he is going to process the divorce in January. This is why we are separated, what we both wanted. So why am I getting upset about it? Why does it make me feel scared to think of being legally single again and cut off from my soon to be Ex?
It doesn't make sense to me.

Hi hun!
Of course you will feel a little sadness over this hun, even though the marriage didnt work out, you obiviously loved this guy at some point or you wouldnt have gotten married in the first place.
*hugs
I have never been married so I dont know what it is like to be in the situation that you are in but however I was with someone for many years we had a baby together baught a house together then got engaged kinda backwards I know but I would not have wanted it any other way.
I think that it is so hard to deal with because it makes everything so final it shows that this is the end that you are both free to live your own lives and that is a very scary thing to deal with.
I think it is great that you met this man and I totally understand that you are not ready to committ and I hope that he knows that and undestands that I wish you the best of luck and all the happiness the world has to offer to you.
Erin