Feeling like a 'lost soul' right now....

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Registered: 04-05-2003
Feeling like a 'lost soul' right now....
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Sun, 12-28-2003 - 10:19pm
IF ANYONE IS EXPERIENCING THIS....I sure could your emotional support....

All my close friends have moved out of state and I miss that daily connection with them so much and the man I've been seeing for afew years just found out he hasto relocate to another state next week........I am inbetween jobs.......just got a suspension on my license for not being able to afford auto ins. right now and it just seems to go on and on and I'm feeling so lost and overwhelmed right now..........

If anyone is feeling anxious and/or overwhelmed or 'empty', I sure would love to hear from you for some emotional support...... Thanks! Nan mallomars9@aol.com

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Sun, 12-28-2003 - 10:49pm
Yes, I can definitely relate...I graduated from college in August, and have since lost contact with all of my college friends...and I don't have a job or any other friends... and especially now, I'm very lonely, since even my roommates are gone for the holidays. I was at home with my parents', but I needed a break from that, at least for a few days...

I'm also really concerned about money, can't afford a lot of things I used to be able to...I feel like I could almost have written your post, since "anxious, overwhelmed, empty" describes me pretty well these days too.

It's good to "meet" you here, keep posting,

Rose

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Registered: 07-15-2003
Sun, 12-28-2003 - 11:05pm
Hi there

I can relate to those feelings. I am not feeling them right now, but I know all about them.

Are you on any medications? Do you talk with a therapist? One or both of these help alot.

Take care

Pamela

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Mon, 12-29-2003 - 4:04am

Welcome Nan,

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Mon, 12-29-2003 - 10:11am

Nan;


I believe that at one point or another, we have all had visits from the feelings you have right now.

Blessed Be!

Laure-co-cl on migraines & headaches

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Mon, 12-29-2003 - 2:53pm


OKAY I KINDA KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT MY TWO BEST FRIENDS MOVED TO SPRINGFIELD MASSACHUSETS ONE MOVED A FEW YEARS AGO THE OTHER MOVED A FEW MONTHS AGO I JUST SAW THEM OVER THE HOLIDAY WEEKEND AND IT MADE ME SEE JUST HOW MUCH I MISS THEM BUT IT HELPED ME SEE ALSO HOW MUCH WE ALL HAVE GROWN OVER THIS TIME AND HOW WE EACH HAVE NEW THINGS TO SHOW AND TEACH EACH OTHER.

I AM NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW SO I CANT UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE GOING THRU IN THAT SITUATION BUT I CAN ONLY IMAGINE HOW HARD IT IS AND I HOPE THAT IN TIME THE PAIN GETS LESS AND LESS FOR YOU

THE SUSPENDED LICENSE I CAN REALLY RELATE TO MINE WAS SUSPENDED A YEAR AGO (i STILL DROVE DESPITE THE FACT THAT I COULD GET INTO DEEP DOODEE IF I GOT CAUGHT) SO I PAID A 400.00 FINE AND THEN ANOTHER 100.00 TO THE CONNECTICUT DMV TO HAVE MY LICENSE REINSTATED AND NOW I HAVE TO PAY 35.00 TO THE ARIZONA SMV TO HAVE THEM REINSTATE MY LICENSE(I LIVED IN ARIZONA FOR MANY YEARS STILL HAVE AN ARIZONA DL)

SO YA I UNDERSTAND THE WHOLE LICENSE THING.

LOOK SWEETIE I DONT KNOW IF YOU ARE GONNA TAKE THIS ALL IN OR BELIEVE ME WHEN I SAY THING BUT THINGS WILL GET BETTER NOT TODAY AND NOT ALL AT ONCE BUT IN TIME IT WILL GET BETTER LIFE WILL NOT ALWAYS BE HORRIBLE AND PAINFUL ALL OF THIS IS JUST PART OF LIVING WEATHER WE ALL LIKE IT OR NOT IT IS LIFE IF WE DIDNT HAVE PAIN WE WOULDNT BE LIVING.

GOOD LUCK HONEY I AM SURE THAT I DIDNT HELP TOO MUCH SORRY ABOUT THAT BUT TRUST ME IN TIME YOU WILL BE OKAY WE ARE NEVER REALLY ALONE SOMETIMES WE ARE JUST AFRIAD TO ADMIT THAT IT IS EASIER TO BE SURE THAT YOU ARE MISERABLE THEN RISK BEING HAPPY WORDS TO LIVE BY

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Mon, 12-29-2003 - 5:44pm

(((((((Nan))))))), I'm glad you found our board.

 

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