Room for one more? Possible triggers
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Room for one more? Possible triggers
| Mon, 01-05-2004 - 4:23pm |
Hey! I found this board & I hope you don't mind me posting, things have been rather rough for me lately. I'll give you a little background on me, I'm 23, I've been married for 3 yrs, we've been together for 4, I have daughter that turned 6 yesterday, a son that'll turn 2 on the 14th, & a step-daughter that will be 4 in Feb. We didn't know about my step-daughter until the night before she was born & since then it's been a rollercoaster. We thought that the court thing was done with in Oct, but I got a call from the lawyer today & hubby's ex & her mom went to the lawyer's office & tore up the signed court order & refused to sing anything. His ex is 25, lives at home, & lets her mom control when hubby sees step-daughter & I'm fed up with it. My husband & I have had a really rough year, I started talking to an ex, thinking that I'd leave hubby & all my problems would be solved, well, then I came back t reality & since then, I've been really working on our marriage, the issues with me, & I'm now taking paxil & it's helpjg a lot. I haven't saw my counselor is 4 weeks, so I'm glad that I have an appt on Wed, I sure need it. Well, that's a little about me. I look forward to posting with you all!

There's always room for one more, girl!
I am glad to hear that you are on meds (I am on Paxil too) and that you are seeing a therapist.
I just wanted to welcome you.
Take care
Pamela
Welcome to the board, I hope that you will find all the support that you need here the ladies are awesome here and I am sure you will agree after posting here a bit.
Well you seem to be having a bit going on in your life right now, I know how hard it can be dealing with ex's I have my own to deal with or shall I say not to deal with we hardly speak I talk to his wife more than I speak with him, so I guess I dont have it so bad but at times it is not always that easy with him he has cuatody of our son so he pulls the strings and at times I am the puppet.
I get very touchy when it comes to in laws how they use kids against their parents that really aggrivates me and I think that it is uncalled for because in the end it is the kids that suffer not the adults so the ex mother in law needs to butt out and get a life, sorry for being so blunt.
I do hope that things get better for you in time I am sure they will we are only given as much as we can handle.
take care, Erin
Welcome to the board!!!!!
We always have room for one more.
*hugs