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Registered: 03-26-2003
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Tue, 01-06-2004 - 11:24pm
Hey everyone,

Been having a bad two days. I don't think I got the job I hoped I would- the recruiter has pretty much been blowing me off. Sent me an email saying that she is away this week at meetings and was not able to do much with the job. But I just have a sinking feeling that I didn't get it.

I also called my old boss about a job where he works...not sure what will happen with that though.

Tried to call Catholic Charities the other day but got voicemail. Will try again tomorrow.

I have pretty much been crying off and on for the past two days. I am so scared. What am I going to do if I don't find something before my unemployment runs out?? I am so afraid of losing my townhouse (that I rent), of being evicted. You here stories about people losing everything- that could be me! I am only 34 and my life is such a mess. I just don't know where to turn....

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: lonelygirln
Wed, 01-07-2004 - 9:01am

Lonely -


First, let me give you lots of hugs....just knowing that someone out there listens to me is a huge help to me.

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Registered: 11-18-2003
In reply to: lonelygirln
Wed, 01-07-2004 - 11:37am




I know that you believe right now that your life is a mess but it isnt things will start to get better in time it will all work out for you...

Maybe you not getting a call from the head hunter means that the perfect job for you has not yet come along is there any agencies that you could call and send your resume to? that way it is out there maybe try posting it online at places like monster.com head hunter rely on those boards to find people to fill positions at companies and other site is hoyjobs.com I posted on both boards and got a bunch of calls and interviews try it you never know it may work for ya...

I know how you feel about loosing your home and everything else after I broke up with my sons dad he was not paying child support and I had to take care of everything my car payment my day care alone was 200.00 a week not to mention buying all my sons clothes and his food for day care and his food for home plus my aute insurance and everything else my car almost got repoed it was really bad but in time and with alot of patience it all worked out.

So you see in the end thngs will be pkay for you like I said take it in time

Good luck hun giving you a ton of hugs.

Erin

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Registered: 07-18-2007
In reply to: lonelygirln
Wed, 01-07-2004 - 11:44am

Are you connected with a church?

 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: lonelygirln
Wed, 01-07-2004 - 12:25pm
I have an appointment tomorrow with the Catholic Charities counseling service. I am an emotional wreck...I have tried for the last six months to say everything will be okay but now I don't feel that it will. Have you ever felt like you will never be happy again? That is how I feel.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: lonelygirln
Wed, 01-07-2004 - 7:29pm
Thanks...unfortunately I have only me to depend on, I am single. I am glad that things worked out okay for you. I keep trying to have faith but I feel like I have completely lost in the last few weeks.
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Registered: 07-18-2007
In reply to: lonelygirln
Wed, 01-07-2004 - 7:52pm

I felt that way a lot for a very long time -- years.

 

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