~Good Friends huh?~

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Registered: 09-04-2003
~Good Friends huh?~
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Mon, 01-12-2004 - 9:35am
Hey Everyone, Hope you all had a great weekend. I posted this exact same thing on the other board I frequent, and it was so long I just copy-pasted it, and added this little blurb up here. Its pretty long....

Just want to share a story that happened to me over the weekend.

Saturday night, my best friend, her step-sister, and another friend of ours decided to go out, but before we hit the bar, we partied at my house. There was just the four of us, and we played cards, and listened to music and whatever.

My best friends step-sister is 25, it was the first time she had partied at my house, whereis obviously my best friend and the other friend had been to many parties at my house.

While we were sitting at the kitchen table at my house, I told the girls that they were more than welcome to come stay the night at my house, because my mother and sister were both out for the night, there was beds for them to sleep in. My best friends step-sister, asked me " Can we bring strange men home?" I said, " No way, my boyfriend wouldn't be impressed with that, and I don't want anyone else in my house" and we left it at that.

So, the night progressed, and we all ended up at a local pub, and I wasn't feeling well, so I decided to go home(alone of course) Everyone knew I was feeling crappy, and that I had left. So, after I get home, I took a few minutes, and cleaned up the kitchen, putting CD's away, and clearing the tables of bottles and putting dishes in the sink. After I was satisfied that things were ok, I headed upstairs to bed, read my book for a bit, and fell asleep.

Only to be wakened at around 4 am. about 2 1/2 hours after I got home, by people downstairs at my house. At first, I was like ok, its just the girls back from the bar, drinking the rest of the alcohol. But then to my surprise, I heard a guys voice! I listened closer, and came to the conclusion that it was my best friends boyfriend. (Which is totally fine, becuase I know him, and my boyfriend has met him, and if she was there, it was ok)

Then the phone rings, and its my best friend!!! She says, "Hey, just wanted to make sure the girls got home ok, and see if you were feeling better", I was in complete shock, and said " Where are you?" and she said she was at her boyfriends. I was like "Whattttt, then who the heck is in my house?"

Just then, I heard someone in the bathroom, so I set the telephone down, and and went in to the hallway, and there was another "friend" of ours,Shianne, who wasn't even at my house earlier that night, she came back with the girls. I asked her who was downstairs, and she said " Me, Crystal, Cher, and some guy Cher brought home" I said to her " I am not @#$%#%$ impressed, Shianne" She went downstairs, and I stood in the hallway and listened to what was going on in my living room. I heard her tell them all that I was not impressed, and I heard someone say, "Yeah, whatever"

So, I go in to my room and pick up the phone and ask Andrea what I should do,and she tells me to go down there, and lay down the law, and kick them the heck out. So, I gather my courage, hang up the phone and start down the stairs. Crystal, and Cher take off up to the bathroom, but they go throught the kitchen so I didn't get to say anything to them. There were, not one but two strange guys in my house, drinking Andrea's liquor, and hanging out.

Ok guys, I literally FLIPPED out on them! I was yelling at these guys, and swearing at my "friends", and I kicked them all out of my house.

One of the guys walked out of the kitchen, and went into the living room, and Shianne followed behind, and came back in about 2 minutes later, and told me that he was telling her that he was scared of me!!! How cool is that!!! These 2 guys, have never met me before, and I was in my PJ's , and they were terrified of me! I love it! lol

Anyway, I got them all out of the house, even the girls, and went back to my room, and called Andrea back, and told her what I did, and she was like" You go girl"

So, I went to bed, and slept peacfully until yesterday afternoon.

I have never been so angry, in my whole life. Seriously, I was so mad, I was shaking, and I couldn't hold a glass of water.

Oh, yeah, and neither of the girls apoligised to me either, except Shianne, had really nothing to do with the whole thing, she was told my the other two that it was ok to bring the guys home. Until this morning, I get an e-mail from Crystal saying she's sorry that she thought I was still awake, when they came home. Bull....

What the heck???

Heather

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 9:53am


I am proud of you girl that you had the courage to say something to those people and to get them out of your house, me I probably would have gotten physical which is not good but you did it the right way and you had every right to do it.

And as for those girls I dont know what they were thinking especially after you told them no strange people in your house period.....

Maybe they need their ears cleaned or something.

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Registered: 07-15-2003
Mon, 01-12-2004 - 10:03am
Holy cow!

You go girl, I would have done the same thing. Awesome that you scared the pants of of 'em!

I don't know what to say about your friends, I would definately say something to them though. They need to know that that was totally NOT A COOL THING TO DO.

Take care

Pamela

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