i really need some help please insight!!

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Registered: 11-18-2003
i really need some help please insight!!
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Tue, 01-13-2004 - 4:15pm
I really need some help here ladies so please any info insight advice support will be greatly appreciated.

As you all know I have been talking about Arizona how I want to move back out there to be near my son and to just live my life.

I thought that moving back to Connecticut would make me happy take me out of my funk....well I could not have been more wrong since I have moved back to CT I have been even more unhappy, I guess I just needed to come back here to see that it is not the place that can make you happy but that you have to be happy with yourself..well I know that I will never be happy in CT...

So I have been checking out a few sights into people that are looking for roommates checking out the job scene there I dont plan on doing anything for a good year or so but that is what I am afraid of what if in a year I get that old fear back again and once again dont move out there and end up stuck here in CT..I want to be with my baby so bad but my fear is so powerful that is consumes my entire body.

I had a meeting with my sister last night she wants to split the utilities 3 ways heat electric and cable between herself me and Luis sure no problem but that cuts so deep into my money that I was planning on saving to go to Arizona that now I will probably have to get a second job just to save which cuts into my sleep time since I go to bed at 10pm and I work out 6 days a week two days a week I work til 7pm and one of those days I go to therapy and the rest of the week I work til 6pm and saturdays til 5pm and sunday is my only day off.

So I need to find a way to save the money and maybe avoid getting a second job because I really want to get out of here.

So any help would be great thanks ladies.

Erin

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Registered: 07-15-2003
Tue, 01-13-2004 - 4:31pm
Okay first off. If you are paying for half of all this stuff Erin you have the right to start using these things.

Now, do you have anything you can cut out? Like not necessities? Or can you find a cheaper place to live? Maybe you can find a cheap basement suite to rent so you can save money? Just a thought.

I can't really think of anything. I will keep thinking though.

Take care

Pamela

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Tue, 01-13-2004 - 5:59pm

(((((((Erin))))))), what about carrying your meals to work?

 

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