Happy Birthday to me.......

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Happy Birthday to me.......
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Mon, 01-19-2004 - 12:08pm
Yep, I'm 37 today. Feeling like 70. I'm depressed. DH barely said Happy Birthday and the girls are too young. We were supposed to go out to dinner yesterday. Just the 2 of us. But I canceled because I didn't want to go with him. Yep, I can't stand him right now. So we'll see what comes out of that.



Happy Birthday........


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Mon, 01-19-2004 - 12:34pm

((((((((((((((((((((((((hun))))))))))))))))))))))


I hope your day gets better for you.

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Mon, 01-19-2004 - 12:35pm

Happy

 

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Mon, 01-19-2004 - 1:46pm
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i read in your profile that you would like to learn how to quilt. maybe you could start that as your birthday treat. i quilt and there is a message board also on quilting that i am sure could give you some hints, tips, and ideas to get started. love to see you there. i also go to a sewing board. i know that birthdays can be rough for some people too, exacerbating the not so good feelings too. sending big birthday hugs to you!

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Registered: 04-09-2003
Mon, 01-19-2004 - 3:02pm
It doesn't sound like such a happy birthday for you, but I want to send you birthday wishes anyway.

I've had some downer birthdays myself. They were downers for years, in fact. As it is, I try to take every birthday as it comes. Some seem like non-birthdays, but I've tried to adjust my expectations. At one point after college I realized that I couldn't depend on other people to make my birthday special. I started making my own plans. See a movie I wanted to see, or shop for myself. If other people wanted to come, that was fine. But I didn't depend on them. Too many people had flaked or let me down and left me with a miserable birthday in the past.

The worst for me is when I'm in a depressed or bad mood and a special occasion happens. I can't change my mood because of the day. Feeing badly about how bad I feel leaves me feeling way worse. The best I guess is if I can just accept that I'm down and live with it. Special events put on so much PRESSURE on us!

So HAPPY BIRTHDAY anyway! We all wish you well.

Love,

MariaC

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Registered: 03-22-2003
Mon, 01-19-2004 - 4:03pm
Birthday Gifts

*hugs             

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Mon, 01-19-2004 - 6:30pm

Happy Birthday ILKA!!!!!!!!










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Mon, 01-19-2004 - 6:45pm
Happy Birthday My Friend!!!! I hope that your day gets better!!!

God Bless Ya

Go Patriots

~Jen~

Anne
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 01-19-2004 - 11:57pm
I'm sorry, birthdays can be a hard time and make "everyday" problems seem even bigger...at least that's been my experience. At least the women on this board are all wishing you a happy birthday, with better days to come.

Hugs,

Rose