I Apologize

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-01-2003
I Apologize
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Fri, 02-06-2004 - 4:33pm
My apologies to all,

I am feeling a little guilty that I have been unable to post lately. I do visit the board when I can and read some posts but I have not been able to post a response like I would like too. I just what you all to know that I am here in spirit and sending you all Cyber Hugs and positive thoughts. I think about a lot of you every day and I wish that I could post encouragement to you all but my life has become a little more complicated.

My husband had a near nervous breakdown over our house building project. He got so bad that he would not sleep at night and he would get up in the morning and gag or throw up. The house building was really getting to him. His folks could see that he was becoming worst each day and I was helpless as to know how to help him. Our parents as well as our second oldest daughter and her boyfriend have been coming to the property to help when they can which has been a tremendous help. I have also taken on more of the responsibilities of dealing with the sub-contractors, venders, etc. that are needed to finish this project. This has not been an easy task, as I have had to put aside some of my anxieties very quickly and take on the strong person role. This brings us to why I have not been able to find the time to post. On Tuesday, I tried to join in on the chat but I had to field several telephone calls that had to do with the house and deal with the little ones, thus my cry for hugs. I am not a strong person but as of late I have had to become one. I have so wished that I could come and share with you all as I know that I can always find the support needed to help me threw these difficult days, as this is what this board is all about.

I trust that when these difficulties pass that I will have many stories to share with you. But for now please know that I am with you all in spirit and I do know that with the support of all the wonderful ladies here on this board that you will find the support you are searching for. Know that I am here crying with you or celebrating with you or just here to give you that hug when you are in need of one.

I will try to post from time to time if I can.

Warmest Regards to all,

RainydaysArgon

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Fri, 02-06-2004 - 4:40pm




(((((((((((((((((((((Rainy)))))))))))))))))))))))))))


Please don't feel guilty when you can't get here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-18-2003
Fri, 02-06-2004 - 5:22pm
Swertie,

I wish I could be there to help you out with whatever you need help with when it comes to the house and with emotional support.

I can only imagine how difficult it is for you right now and how stressful it is for all of you, it is good that his folks are helping out and your daughter and her boyfriend are helping also.

Just think though how great it is going to be when everything is all said and done with you will have a home of your own most if not all of your stressors will be gone and once again you will have a home of your own again.

dont worry about not being around we know what it is like for you right now.

How is your husband feeling? I hope much better.

and how are you holding up with the anxieties? I hope that from here on out things go smooth for you and your family.

thinking of you

Erin

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-26-2004
Fri, 02-06-2004 - 5:23pm

(((((((Rainy)))))))), I am so sorry to hear about your husband's distress.

AcornLeaves
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Registered: 03-22-2003
Fri, 02-06-2004 - 6:33pm

My Friend!


Please dont apologize or feel guilty if you cant post!

*hugs