I'm afraid of loosing my mother (trigs)
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| Sun, 02-08-2004 - 5:27pm |
My mom is my best friend and always has been. I feel very fortunate and blessed that I had a close relationship with my mother. My mother is only 60yrs old but sometimes it is like she is 80 yrs old. I feel helpless in helping her stop smoking and even if she does qiut she will always have problems with breathing and the oxygen, nebulizer and inhalers will not stop the doctor said. I am sure stopping smoking will help some though. I just lost my brother in November and my sister and I are not that close. I don't have anyone in my family I am close to, no aunts, uncles or cousins. Loosing her will devestate me. I am 36 yrs old and I am afraid of my mom not being there. I guess it doesn't matter how old you are when you loose someone(or the thought of it)is scary. I just needed to vent this to get out my feelings. It is great being able to post my feelings, fears and thoughts here.
Tina~

Yavonne
Wife to Devin since May 12, 2001
Angel born to heaven August 20, 2002
Mommy to Bunny (Aaliyah) July 29,2003
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Tina,
You said you have a hard time understanding how hard it is for you mother to quit smoking.
I lost my mother 5 months ago and i used this message board as a way to talk out about something that really messes you up. My Mom had cancer of the ovaries and if her Doctor would have done a complete hysterectomy on her instead of a partial, she would still be alive today. Losing your Mother is very hard and spend as much time as you can with her while she is still alive. Keep writing. The people on this web site can be a great comfort and i personally want to thank everyone. I haven't been on here in months and i have been trying for months to deal with my life without my mom. She was 72 when she passed and i alway thought she would live to be 100. Until this she was the healthiest person alive. I wish the best for you.
rann