I Am Whipped (Trigs)

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2004
I Am Whipped (Trigs)
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Sat, 02-21-2004 - 11:48pm
Hello Everyone,

I have not been here in awhile because I have been on the road between my home and Birmingham to see over the care of my mother that has been diagnoised with lung cancer(non-small cell type) I am whipped in every way possible, my youngest son needs me, my husband misses me and my mother needs me, there isn't enough of me left for any of the people I care about. My mother is a very difficult person to deal with and now because of this diagnosis plus the fact of her over all health, she will need to go to a nursing home and she is very upset with me that I can't take care of her 24/7. I have tried to do the best I can for her and see that she has all that she needs, I feel so depressed for her, for myself. I can't put into words what I am feeling but I am sure some of you can understand what I mean. Thank you for being willing to talk about your depression and the lack of control in your lives it helps to know that I am not alone.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-27-2004
Sun, 02-22-2004 - 3:31pm

(((((Bamagirl))))), of course you're exhausted!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-22-2003
Mon, 02-23-2004 - 9:21am

Hey Bamagirl!!


I know its hard right now but try to take a little time for YOU ~

*hugs             

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2003
Mon, 02-23-2004 - 5:01pm
I am sorry you have so much to carry right now.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2004
Wed, 02-25-2004 - 11:13am
Thank you for taking the time to respond to my situation, you are so kind.