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| Mon, 02-23-2004 - 8:49am |
hey everyone.
I have a 2 yr old dd and we just found out that I am pregnant again. well DH is hoping its a false pg. he thinks that we arnt ready for another one. hes being soo negative its very hard for me. I know we have a 2 yr old , but the fact is that we are pregnant. so we had better be ready . he acts like we are being punished for something. when he isnt around pretending I'm not pg, I'm ok. I can handle it. but when he starts into the I really hope those tests are negative, it really pulls me down. I think Brianna (dd) will be just fine. it will take adjustment but we will be ok and she will be ok, last week she started playing with her dolls like they were real babies , rocking them feeding them , talking to them, and she also said her baby was a boy, weird huh . maybe she know s somethng I dont ? I'm trying to keep an open mind but its been so hard with these pregnancy emotions and his negativity.
I have a 2 yr old dd and we just found out that I am pregnant again. well DH is hoping its a false pg. he thinks that we arnt ready for another one. hes being soo negative its very hard for me. I know we have a 2 yr old , but the fact is that we are pregnant. so we had better be ready . he acts like we are being punished for something. when he isnt around pretending I'm not pg, I'm ok. I can handle it. but when he starts into the I really hope those tests are negative, it really pulls me down. I think Brianna (dd) will be just fine. it will take adjustment but we will be ok and she will be ok, last week she started playing with her dolls like they were real babies , rocking them feeding them , talking to them, and she also said her baby was a boy, weird huh . maybe she know s somethng I dont ? I'm trying to keep an open mind but its been so hard with these pregnancy emotions and his negativity.
thanks for listening
Beth


First of all Congratulations!!
Im gathering though from your post that this wasnt planned... Had you talked about having more children though or did you only plan on one?
I will say that from all the Moms I talked to that having kids 2-3 years apart is actually the best time.
*hugs
Hi, ((((((((Beth)))))))))!
Hugs Ilka