Worst Mother in the world..........

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Worst Mother in the world..........
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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 4:11pm

Oh God this was the hardest thing I ever did!!!!!!!!!


Im the worst mother in the world!!!!


We told Jordan and oh the tears.............. I just wanted to die right there and my Husband saying "Now I hate you for this"........ and the tears and Jordan asking me "what about the vows you took?"

*hugs ~ Caly

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 4:48pm
((((((Caly))))))

Sweetie, you AREN'T the worst mother in the world. I work for Public Health and let's just say you don't even come close. Okay??

How old is Jordan?

I don't know what to say, but I know that it isn't an easy situation for anybody. My parents split when I was in grade nine. It IS a very confusing time, and I don't know what you can do to make it otherwise. You can ask your therapist I imagine. Just give Jordan lots of love and answer any questions he might have.

Take care

Pamela

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 5:02pm


(((((((((((((((((((((CALY)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I know that this is hard to believe at this moment in time but it will be okay it will get better in time things will pan out and I understand you wanting to do what is best for Jordan and seeing him happy, how old is Jordan? is he old enough to understand what is going on?

The best thing that both you and Jeff can do is to be supportive of whatever Jordan decides to do that way he sees his parents cooperative with one another and sees something that is healthy....

I wish you the best of luck in all that is to come an I hope that you and Jeff can part as friends not for your sakes but for Jordans and hopefully in the long term you tow can be friends and wish one another all the happiness the other deserves.

Good luck Caly, I'll be thinking of you.

Erin

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 6:07pm
Just know you're in the circle....

we're all here for you


I'm proud of you that you got through the hard part. I am sure that it was super hard for you to go through with. Just know that we're all here, and nothing is set in stone quite yet. Don't panic, we'll help you through everything.

Hang in there, and don't give up sweetie. You CAN and WILl ge through this!

Trix

XOXO

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 6:32pm
Caly, you are too wonderful of a human to be a bad mommy. You are doing what needs to be done, it is right for all in the situation. I am glad and proud that you got the ball rolling. You are not bad for doing what is necessary.

We are all here for you.

Sending hugs and good thoughts your way.

Take care,

Lisa-)

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 8:00pm
Caly,

I am sending you the BIGGEST CYBER HUGS I can. As stated before and I am sure it will be stated after we all LOVE and care about you Caly and we are here for you.

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 8:56pm

{{{{CALY}}}}..... I haven't been by this board in a while and something drew me to it specifically to say hello to you. I guess I dropped by for a reason....

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 9:22pm

((((((Caly)))))), you are so NOT the worst mother in the world!

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Tue, 02-24-2004 - 10:57pm

Sweetie, we already talked about this for a bit today.

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Wed, 02-25-2004 - 12:27am
Caly, hon...someone else mentioned that divorce is hard on any age..I was 22 when my parents got divorced, and even though I knew they weren't happy, and I wasn't either, I still had a lot of issues about it..

My only advice is for neither of you to talk bad about each other in front of him..

*hugs*

Jenn