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| Sun, 03-07-2004 - 8:43am |
I've recently been diagnosed with depression. My husband died last December after suffering from lungcancer for two years. I nursed him all that time, but I couldn't save him. Now he's gone and I have to build a new life for myself. I'm, young; only 33, and I most certainly believe there's a future for me. But I'm three months down the road and I still haven't been able to wrap up the business affairs and start anew. My doctor has prescribed me celexa; 40 mg a day. I've been on it for 8 weeks now and I'm still tired, suffering from migraines; I've lost my appetite, and I'm unable to sleep for any length of time. I've lost six pounds off my already skinny form and I feel awful.
After reading about grief and depression I realized that I have ben depressed more often in my life, after major incidents, and frankly it's quite a relief to know what is wrong with me. I'm starting counseling next week and I am looking forward to tackling this challenge. The only thing that really bothers me is that I can't seem to find the energy. Shouldn't the medication be working by now?
Jules

HUGS about your DH. Im soo soo sorry. You've been through an awful time dont expect your body to just rebound. My Dad died from lung cancer 2 years ago, it was such a very scary thing to see. I cant imagine what you went through again HUGS
Glad that you have found us. I was on Celexa for almost 2 years. If you feel that it isn't working you might want to talk with your doctor. You might be able to increase your dose to 60mg. That is the highest that you can go on that medication. I found that it made me tired as well so I started to take it at night before I went to bed. I am sorry for your loss...I will be praying for you!!!! As far as your migraines....are you taking any medication for those??? There are lot of different option out there as well. I am also a migraine sufferer. I can praise the Lord that I have been migraine free for almost 2 months now!!!! This is an awesome place Jules. Make yourself at home. The women here are awesome and wonderful and always willing to help out!!!! Keep your chin up sister!!!!
God Bless Ya
~Jen~
Hi Jules!!
Welcome to the board!
*hugs
((((((((Jules)))))))), I want to welcome you to our board.
First off, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband. It is very important that you grieve, sweetie. And it takes a different amount of time for everyone.
I agree with the other ladies, I would consult your doctor about the meds not seeming to work. She/he will either want to increase the dose or switch meds. It can sometimes take many tried before you find the right medication/dose combination. But it is well worth it when you find the right one.
I am happy to read that you are going to see a counsellor. A grief counsellor might also be thought, I think there is also a grief board on IVillage.
Please take care and know that I am holding you close in my heart.
Pamela
((((((Jules)))))), Pamela is right.
You have found one of the things I do to avoid holing up.