I hate my life.......
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I hate my life.......
| Mon, 03-08-2004 - 12:07pm |
I just try to get through the days, and that's hard. My DH is not a big support system, he got his own stuff going on and for some reason I have to be the strong one all the time. I can't do it any more. The kids drive me crazy, my house is mess, my DH makes stupid comments all the time etc. My parents are supposed to come out in May and I don't want them here. I don't get along with my mom very well, she is very manipulating and controlling. So I don't even want to deal with it. I just don't get anything out of my life anymore.
God will this ever end.......Ilka

I hope things look up for you soon.
Pamela
Ilka,
Hun you are not alone and yes things will get better for you, I agree with Stephanie tell hubby that you need some alone time with out him or the kids go to a day spa get a message manicure your hair done sit out in the sun reading a great book go for a long drive listening to some great tunes along the way.....you deserve to just relax we all do.
For your mom is there a way to get around her visit maybe tell her that it isnt a good time? maybe you could have a long talk with her over the phone tell her how you feel do you think that would help any?
I am sorry that I dont have much more advice to off kinda in a rut myself but I just wanted you to know that you are loved and thought about and I wish you the best.
Erin
Hi Ilka hun,
It can get better hun! I know that my mother is the same way and it took me over 40 years to come to terms with that.. Now I at least accept it and dont let it bother me but my T. and I are still working on me being able to let HER know how I feel.
*hugs