I hate my life.......

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Registered: 03-26-2003
I hate my life.......
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Mon, 03-08-2004 - 12:07pm
I just try to get through the days, and that's hard. My DH is not a big support system, he got his own stuff going on and for some reason I have to be the strong one all the time. I can't do it any more. The kids drive me crazy, my house is mess, my DH makes stupid comments all the time etc. My parents are supposed to come out in May and I don't want them here. I don't get along with my mom very well, she is very manipulating and controlling. So I don't even want to deal with it. I just don't get anything out of my life anymore.

God will this ever end.......Ilka



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Mon, 03-08-2004 - 12:48pm
I just wanted to send you some hugs {{{Ilka}}}.

I hope things look up for you soon.

Pamela

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Mon, 03-08-2004 - 2:30pm
unfortunately men sometimes just don't get it. my ex was like that. it is hard to be a woman... isn't that a song or something. stand by your man??!?!? whatever.... anyway, i wanted to let you know you aren't alone. going through some mother issues myself right now... no matter how old you are your mom can always get to you, can't she? ugh. come here and vent away... maybe it will help a little. maybe taking some time just for yourself might help with the stress you are under. just tell DH that he is watching the kids for a little while and do something you like, go to a movie, window shop, go to the park. hope you feel better soon. best wishes. ~stephanie

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Mon, 03-08-2004 - 4:03pm


Ilka,

Hun you are not alone and yes things will get better for you, I agree with Stephanie tell hubby that you need some alone time with out him or the kids go to a day spa get a message manicure your hair done sit out in the sun reading a great book go for a long drive listening to some great tunes along the way.....you deserve to just relax we all do.

For your mom is there a way to get around her visit maybe tell her that it isnt a good time? maybe you could have a long talk with her over the phone tell her how you feel do you think that would help any?

I am sorry that I dont have much more advice to off kinda in a rut myself but I just wanted you to know that you are loved and thought about and I wish you the best.

Erin

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Registered: 03-22-2003
Mon, 03-08-2004 - 7:16pm

Hi Ilka hun,


It can get better hun! I know that my mother is the same way and it took me over 40 years to come to terms with that.. Now I at least accept it and dont let it bother me but my T. and I are still working on me being able to let HER know how I feel.

*hugs