Caly - that is so great that you got a place you like!! Will Jordan still see his dad a lot? Sorry, I'm not totally up to speed on the whole situation. Hopefully it will help him once he sees that you are happier and more relaxed, he will feel better about the whole situation, also. Wishing you best of luck in this busy time!!!
I'm so happy things are going so well for you. Don't stress too much about Jordan quite yet. He's still taking it all in. With time, he'll adjust and become more open about his feelings about certain situations. Just a thought...because I've dealt with similar situations in school...have you thought about contacting the school social worker?? Just know that I'm trying to help, and not being a pester. I know you want the best for him, and thought that it might help him sort through his feelings. I know that it's helped one of my students sort through his feelings. (I know I've been MIA for a while, and you may have discussed it in the past, but just thought I'd try to help you out!)
Take care, and thinking positive thoughts for you!
Congrats, Caly...that is wonderful! I'm so happy for you. I hope that Jordan will come around as he gets used to the idea...I know moving can be really hard even under better circumstances. But I know you will be fine...I am so relieved that you were able to find a great place in a safe part of town!
I don't really know what to say about Jordan. I know I grew up in a home where my parents fought all the time and there was no love shown. I am a pretty screwed up person because of it. I am sure if you make it so that you and your soon to be ex are civil and don't bash eachother that he will soon see that things are better this way.
congrats on your new place. sounds like a great deal. don't worry too much, jordan will adjust and be fine. just make sure that he knows you love him and this doesn't have anything to do with him. i am so glad to see you so happy. hugs! ~s
Caly~
Congrats!
Dona
Mommy to CJ {03.21.03}& Chantel {08.10.95} Step~Mom to Carrington {08.12.92}
Take care, and thinking positive thoughts for you!
Trix
Hugs,
Rose
I am so happy for you!!
I don't really know what to say about Jordan. I know I grew up in a home where my parents fought all the time and there was no love shown. I am a pretty screwed up person because of it. I am sure if you make it so that you and your soon to be ex are civil and don't bash eachother that he will soon see that things are better this way.
Take care
Pamela