Still unhappy

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Still unhappy
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Mon, 03-15-2004 - 9:37pm
My boyfriend finally apologized for what he said yesterday about how he thinks that I don't think of him and that I'm inconsiderate towards him, but not before ranting at me about how much he does for me and how much time he spends to be with me. He told me that he cares about me and believes in me, but I still feel hurt. I cried and slept all day today because I didn't want to leave the house. Sometimes I don't know what will hurt more---if I leave him or if I stay.
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anonymous user
Tue, 03-16-2004 - 8:35am
Hey you, I hope things are getting better. Ask yourself this question. Why are you with him? Be completely honest with yourself. Take time alone to think about it and then tell yourself the answer. Are you with him because you are afraid of being alone? Because you love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him? Because you are somfortable with him?

Also think about different situations in your life with him. Getting married, what if one of you has an illness, what if another woman wanted to be with him. How would you feel in these situations? I think these questions will help you to realize if he is truly the one. You can make it with or without him. I hope everything works out for you two. Take care.