Dont be sorry, we came to someone defense and you are right we are all here to show support love wisdom carring we are hear to laugh and cry together thru the good bad and ugly this is a safe place for others to come to when they need help and it will continue to be that way.
there are times when people come here lurk around and say something with out even knowing the other persons story.
the poster who make the remark to cathy was way out of line you were not and I will defend anyone here if that should happen again.
cruelty is not something that I tolerate very well, and for me if I have nothing to say to someone or I know that it will not be positive or if someone drives me nuts because they only post about something over and over again and are never willing to help others I keep my mouth shut and dont reply to their post...but ther are times when I really dont know what to say to make someone feel better I get at a lose of words and I feel bad because I do not know what to say.
But anyways I went way off track here...dotn be sorry you were helping someone and that is something to never be sorry about.
there are times when people come here lurk around and say something with out even knowing the other persons story.
the poster who make the remark to cathy was way out of line you were not and I will defend anyone here if that should happen again.
cruelty is not something that I tolerate very well, and for me if I have nothing to say to someone or I know that it will not be positive or if someone drives me nuts because they only post about something over and over again and are never willing to help others I keep my mouth shut and dont reply to their post...but ther are times when I really dont know what to say to make someone feel better I get at a lose of words and I feel bad because I do not know what to say.
But anyways I went way off track here...dotn be sorry you were helping someone and that is something to never be sorry about.
Erin
Sweetie, I am so glad that you wrote the post that you did. I think it was a heroic (sp?)thing to do.
Take care
Pamela