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Unusual Issue has me down
| Sun, 03-21-2004 - 9:58pm |
Hello everyone,
Im here with a sort of out of the ordinary problem that has me really down.
| Sun, 03-21-2004 - 9:58pm |
Hello everyone,
Im here with a sort of out of the ordinary problem that has me really down.
i would like to commend you on your strength and courage. i am sure this was really hard for you (and still is). but it is great that you are able to be honest with yourself and those around you now and be you. i think you will find that people are surprisingly understanding and supportive. and we all have our secrets or differences, and if someone doesn't understand or isn't supportive, then we are better off knowing that. good luck to you!!!
What did you tell your friends that allowed them to take it lightly? Maybe they can help you plan what to tell ppl. My sister's brother-in-law admitted he was homosexual during a marriage and he had a 2 yr old son. Ill be honest, it didnt go over well with his family but after a couple of yrs the family is close again.
I honestly dont know what advice to give you...hmm. Its tough because Im sure some ppl will be angry with you because your husband was not told the truth in all this, but obviously you were in denial and I know you had good intentions. I really hope that this will work out for you.
If someone told me that, then I would think it was unfair to the former spouse. However I would understand that you were going through an extremely difficult time and I would be there to support you. I wish you the best, Take Care :)
I think you need to do what will be best for you. I am happy that you have realized your true self. I can't imagine how hard it must be to pretend in that situation.
Take care
Pamela
Mamabear~
I am so glad that you got out the "lie" that you were living in.
Dona
Mommy to CJ {03.21.03}& Chantel {08.10.95} Step~Mom to Carrington {08.12.92}