Bad Day :(

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Bad Day :(
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Fri, 04-02-2004 - 7:24am
Hi there. Last night b/f and I got into a little argument. This may sound silly, but Ive been wanting to wax my legs for awhile and so I decided to grow out the hair for awhile so I could wax b4 the summer. Tomorrow b/f is coming over and I told him that I have to shave but Im not going to b/c I want to wax. We havent seen each other all week so I was sort of expecting we would *wink wink* when he came over. Anyways he had a problem with it. I come from a background where my hair grows really fast. He wants baby smooth legs but I cant achieve that with shaving all the time. I told him they are my legs and I can do what I want with them. It has nothing to do with him. Well he disagreed and was upset with me.

I feel stupid and sad. Today I have things to do and he is supposed to come over because we have an appnt tonight. I was planning to buy groceries and make a nice dinner for us. I just feel terrible though. Want to cry. Am I an idiot?
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Registered: 07-15-2003
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Fri, 04-02-2004 - 10:29am
Hi Sweetie!!

I sure don't understand guys. I have pretty much given up trying.

I just wanted to send you some hugs and tell you that I did read your post. The board has been deathly quiet lately.

Pamela

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Registered: 01-26-2004
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Fri, 04-02-2004 - 11:32am

I'm sorry to hear your BF got upset over whether or not you shave your legs.

AcornLeaves
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Registered: 11-18-2003
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Fri, 04-02-2004 - 4:30pm


Your boyfriend is being silly that is the best word I can use to describe his reaction to him wanting you to shave..

Does he know that you are planning on getting your legs waxed? does he even understand that in order to get your legs wax the hair has to grow out first?

I would love to be able to get my legs waxed but I can not legt my legs grow out I go one day with out shaving and it is like I never shaved a day in my life ya I know nasty huh......

It is just like if you were going to get a bikini wax you would need to not be well you know what in that area would he be freaked out at that also>?

Tell the old boyfriend that this is something that you really want to do for yourself and if he wants to "wink wink" then he needs to deal also remind him how great your legs will look after the waxing is done.

good luck hun you are not being sill at all this is all normal couple stuff it has been a while but I remeber what it is like to be in a relationship...

have a great weekend.

Erin