still in a funk
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| Fri, 04-09-2004 - 12:20am |
things have been pretty ok with me and the guy i recently got out of a relationship (most of y'all kno the story) we have still been talking and occasionally seeing each other on a friendly basis (tho a few days ago we ended up sleeping together and tehn the next day while i was still there he had an argument on the phone w/ his wife). tho i keep thinking about him being gone and leaving me and being with his wife. i want to be with him and when he invites me over or calls or sends an email i always answer or go over. should i stop doing this and just try and get over the horrible feeling that by ignroing him i have totally ruined things for any chance with us? i want a chance with him and am afraid taht he is sticking with her just because, they still argue and fight but yet he still wants to try and thinks that tho things are looking like they were before he left her that it'll work out.
has anyone ever had this happen, once things get better they fall back down again soon after? i've never seemed to fall back so quickly. what can i do to get myself back up and on my feet again?
sarah
Edited 4/9/2004 2:10 am ET ET by glitzekleines

Hugs and smiles
Annette
Also, you could ask yourself if there are any reasons you fell back into this slump. It seems like your relationship with this man could be a trigger for your feelings. I know it can't be easy to love someone (or even really like them) and then wonder if your feelings are reciprocated...is that something you're worried about?
In my personal opinion, though (and I don't want to sound harsh), a relationship with a married man, even if he and his wife are having problems, is a recipe for trouble...at the very least, it can put your emotions on a roller coaster. I know that I don't know you well, and I probably don't understand the situation fully...but if I were you, I would ask myself if this relationship is a positive thing on the whole or not.
I hope you are able to overcome your feelings of depression, even for a little while...I could use some help with that myself right now! And I hope you don't feel like I am judging you...I am just trying to understand the situation you are in.
Hugs,
Rose