Floozy Update.......M

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Floozy Update.......M
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Tue, 04-27-2004 - 7:47am
Thank you everyone who replied to my melt down this weekend over the Floozy who keeps calling my house. Since I cannot be positive yet that he is being 100% honest with me (my own trust issues), I didn't tell him she called. I kept it in all weekend. I figure if he is still messing with her then me telling him that she called is only going to make him call her back (which I am sure is what she wanted). However, since I didn't tell him I know he did not call her this weekend and she sat there miserable waiting by the phone like a dumb a**.

In fairness to Neal he did keep his cell phone off this weekend so the only way she could reach him was to leave him a voice mail. I can only imagine what she must have said after I answered her call and then called her back. Aside from her calling me we had a good weekend together. It is still so rough trying to get over all the hurt that we have caused each other during our seperation (7 months).

I know without a doubt that if it wasn't for this board I would have driven to her house that night. I have very low self control and I tend to act on impulse without regard to consequence. This behavior seems to be related alot to the depression as I notice it is more prevelent when I am having an *episode*. Does anyone else notice this to be a problem for them?

Here's hoping for a peaceful day for everyone.

Love and Hugs,

~Christy~

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Tue, 04-27-2004 - 11:11am

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Good for you, and not acting on your impulses.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 04-27-2004 - 1:08pm
Hi, Christy...I'm sorry you're having to deal with all this. I agree that you did the right thing by not driving over to her house...good for you! I can relate to sometimes feeling more impulsive when I'm very depressed...I'm not sure why this happens, maybe I just feel desperate for any "solution" to a problem.

Hoping you have a peaceful day as well,

Rose