Seeking solutions desperatly
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Seeking solutions desperatly
| Wed, 05-05-2004 - 2:40pm |
I am going to make this the short of it, because i could write a book. But My 'love life' is a joke, i am living with a guy who loves me but i don't love him and am very unhappy. I have been hanging around in hopes that i will fall inlove, but it is not looking to promising. I could'ent imagine being without him, but i am not inlove, i don't know why, it is killing me, he even knows this.
work is not good either, i keep getting the crappy end of the stick, i do jobs that they dread and i didn't get the promotion i was hoping for. I dont' feel needed here anymore i feel like here i am let out of everything that goes on, i don't feel important. I have made my first appointment with a counsellor and just talking about it might make me feel better, who knows. I have severe money problems, but i guess who doesn't. I have major studentloans, actually to be exact about 30,000 worth, and even if i wanted to leave my current boyfriend which part of me does, i could'ent afford to, not with my debt. I feel like i am stuck between a rock and a hard place.
Someone please help.
Thanks
Carrie
work is not good either, i keep getting the crappy end of the stick, i do jobs that they dread and i didn't get the promotion i was hoping for. I dont' feel needed here anymore i feel like here i am let out of everything that goes on, i don't feel important. I have made my first appointment with a counsellor and just talking about it might make me feel better, who knows. I have severe money problems, but i guess who doesn't. I have major studentloans, actually to be exact about 30,000 worth, and even if i wanted to leave my current boyfriend which part of me does, i could'ent afford to, not with my debt. I feel like i am stuck between a rock and a hard place.
Someone please help.
Thanks
Carrie

Is there any family near you? or have you checked out one of those roommate websites I know of one called roommateaccess.com maybe that would be of help to you..
So this guy knows that you are not in love with him but he still stays did he ever say why?
how long have the two of you been dating?
sorry for the questions just trying to get a better understanding.
I know how you feel about the job mine is the same way I feel that there is nothing left for me to do and no where for me to advance to so I just stay and do what I need to do and then go home at the end of the day..
I think that it is great that you are seeing a therapistyou never know it may help you a ton just to be able to talk to someone who is not directly involved in your life who really can not forma n opinion of the other people in your life..I know for me therapy has saved my life literally...I always look forward to seeing marnie because I usually have a ton to say to her..
I am sure that theother ladies here will be of a ton of help to you and hopefully give you some insight..
the best of luck to you
Erin
yes he knows that i am not inlvove with him, i had really just confessed this a short while ago, but i am sure that he knew before because he says i love you and i don't sya it back.
By the way i am in ontario, canada so that website probably would not be of much help.
Thank you anyway.
Carrie
Hi Carrie and welcome!
Let me tell you from experience hun, You cant make yourself fall in love with someone you arent attracted too and in the end it will hurt you both..
*hugs