Thanks for the support! need more of it

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Thanks for the support! need more of it
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Mon, 05-24-2004 - 9:53am
Hello Ladies....

I want to thank all of you for the show of support...

I need to ask for it again...SORRY

I did not go out on my date on saturday night My Aunt had a heart attack and is up at yale new haven Hospital here in Connecticut she is obese and has diabetis and is not in the best shape possible and may need to have a bipass done but we do not know yet...

I just can not get over how my family is falling apart here right at the seems, first my uncle with the tumor then me with my head problems by the way I got my an MRI done on saturday and it was horrible the noise and the small space they put you in I almost had a panic attack but in my mind I placed myself on a large beach but I should know what is going on by the end of this week and I also still have to get my blood work done also...

so now I have my problems my uncle with the tumor my aunt with the heart attack so my mom is freaking out this is her brother and sister and also me and my sister not speaking...my poor mom has alot on her shoulders right now I just wish there was something I could do for her....

oh by the way my sister and Luis are still the best of friends nice huh....

I am going on my date thursday after work...

okay I am going ot stop complaining now and try to get some work done...

Thanks ladies,

I love you all.

Erin

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 3:41pm
Hey, ask and you shall receive!!!!!

You know...there's a reason "they" say that bad things come in threes, but it sounds like you've exhausted your three! That's good, hopefully no more bad news is coming down the pipeline!

Right now, unfortunately, you need to be selfish! There is NOTHING you can do about your uncle or your aunt, there is nothing you can do to alleviate the pain your family is going through. You're under a lot of stress and pressure, and you need to take care of yourself first and foremost!!!!

Take your right hand....place it over your left shoulder. Take your left hand....place it over your right shouler. NOW SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZZZZZZZZZZZZEEEEEEEEEE!!!

Take care of yourself!!!! We're always here for you!

Tracie

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Registered: 05-14-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 3:52pm

Erin,


I'm so sorry to hear you had to cancel your date on sat. because of your aunt.

~Jessica
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Registered: 04-07-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:36pm




((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Erin))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))


It seems to me when we are least able to handle more stress is when all these THINGS seem to fall out of the woodwork.