Do pets help?
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Do pets help?
| Sat, 09-18-2004 - 10:25am |
I'm single and live alone, and have struggled with depression since my teens. I'm thinking about getting a dog and was wondering if any of you have dogs (or other pets) and if so, does it help with the depression? Or is it too much when you are really down to take care of the dog? We had dogs when I was growing up, and I've had cats before (my ex- got custody), but I've never had a dog as a single person on my own. Sometimes I think just having another heartbeat in the house would help. Thanks much for all replies.

Lynette
Yes pets do help.
Hi!
I think that pets are a big help. Especially with stress. Sometimes I will be so burnt out and then
Michelle
February 1, 2002 Married my Best Friend<
Hey Debbie,
My DD's cat is bigger than yours, LOL.
Growing up we had dogs, cats, birds and fish. A few months ago (very down plus health problems) I was very close to adopting a kitten. I realized with my health situation it would not be a good idea, that I had to be able to take care of myself first to be able to care for a pet.
I miss my dog (ex has her). I have to say, she was at times the only source of joy for me. At the time, I had the means, a house and yard for her to play in. I bawled when I relocated. I missed her so much and keep her picture bedside. She knew when I was really down and she would rest her chin on my leg as if to say, I'm here for you.
I had health concerns and it was a lot of work but well worth it, she counted on me for care. It's a big responsibility and a forever commitment once you decide to take on a pet. I believe in pet therapy. Cats are more independent then dogs. A pet is a wonderful companion but consider it is a lot of work, costly and these animals will depend on you for everything, forever. My dog did not like being alone. Consider how much time the animals will be alone. A cat is more independent that way. I hate to say this because I do love cats and dogs but cats can take you or leave you, remember what it was like trying to pet them, cut into their snooze time when they did not want the attention? lol...but a dog needs you and always up for a good scratch.
My dog made me laugh, smile and cheered me up. Without her I would not have had that or lasted as long as I did with ex. Dogs require more from us. Try "rent a pet" first for a time and go from there. Depending on how that goes, the answer might surface at that point. Take your time and good luck.
kittens or cats need for u to change their litter all the time. i have 6, so i do know, and mine r very affectionate. not all cats r that way, so i do understand what u mean.
but a cat should never be made an indoor/outdoor pet. many owners do that, but they would never do that to a dog. never understood that.
i applaud u for ur consideration and for understanding that our furry friends do need our time and attention.
please feel better cuz u wd be a great pet owner firshir
love and i pray for ur return to good health
kitties