Thinking that my coworkers dont like me
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Thinking that my coworkers dont like me
| Wed, 10-27-2004 - 6:25pm |
Hello all. Im working part time at a coffee shop about 18 hrs per week & soon will start working 22 hrs per week. We are usually really busy & dont have time to chat but lately it has been a bit quieter & therefore ppl are chatting more. Well I feel like my coworkers dont like me very much. Im not sure if Im just thinking it or what. There is this one woman there who is pg & I bumped into her a couple of times (lightly & not on her belly!) b/c there is very limited space in which we have to move around. I said "Your baby probably hates me" & she smiled & said "Maybe"...hmm does that mean anything? I feel like I cant talk to them much. I dont really know what to say. I know my boss likes me as a worker but I dont know if she likes my personality. She tends to joke with the other employees but not with me. The only time I talk much is on Saturdays when I work with only one other person & it isnt busy. We tend to talk about our lives, etc. On Sat we were talking about what bugs us that other coworkers do. I tried not to name names but I guess you could say we sort of gossiped in a sense. I never gossip b/c Im not good at it & dont agree with it. Well since then I have felt a little worse b/c it seems like if someone does something another person doesnt like, they will tell another coworker. Since Im still relatively new I still make some mistakes, but I worry ppl will talk about it. Also, the coworker that I work with on Saturdays who chats with me pretty much doesnt acknowledge me during the rest of the week when its more busy. I dont know if its b/c its more busy or what...anyways sorry for making this post so long. Thank you for listening :)

Hi D, fancy running into you here!
Oh, I don't know what to say. These work situations
peace and love,
just_a_big_kid
Take care of yourself,
Nicola
Thanks guys ;)