Dealing with loss: Triggers

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Registered: 07-01-2004
Dealing with loss: Triggers
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Fri, 11-12-2004 - 3:25pm

Hey all....Today I was blind sided by the death of an old friend.

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Registered: 09-03-2004
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 6:04pm

((((((((((LISA)))))))))) Oh Lisa I am so sorry. That is a really hard thing to be hit with when you have already been struggling. I will be thinking of you and please try to let us know your doing OK.


GREAT BIG SQUISHY HUGS

Maureen/Mo


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Maureen/Mo

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 6:11pm

(((((((((((((((((((Lisa)))))))))))))))))))))

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Registered: 01-27-2004
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 9:20pm
((((((((((Lisa)))))))))), I'm so terribly sorry for your loss.

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Fri, 11-12-2004 - 9:23pm
(((Lisa)))) Just adding my hugs to everyone elses. I'm so sorry about your friend. Debbie
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Registered: 11-08-2004
Sat, 11-13-2004 - 11:49am
i am so sorry to hear of your loss, i just lost my father, who was also my best friend, sept. 23, so i understand your pain.....i am a recovering addict and the only thing that kept me from using thus far is knowing that my father is closer than ever watching over me and he constantly told me how proud he was of me and how far i had come, i miss him so much, i find myself talking to him all the time, but my two teenage kids understand, because he was not only a grandpa to them but the only consistant father figure they have had in their lives....one thing that has helped me since his death is the journal i have been writing to him, i was faithful everynite, but now its occasional...but it does seem to help me somewhat.....your friend is still here, just not physically so if you need him just talk.....and let your heart and soul listen...best of luck...liz

mommadukesliz (liz)

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Registered: 04-07-2003
Sat, 11-13-2004 - 12:19pm

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((lisa))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))


I know hugs aren't enough, but there are plenty here.

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Registered: 07-01-2004
Sun, 11-14-2004 - 10:37am
Thank you all so much for your kind words. Your support helps me so much.

Hugs,

Lisa-)