The PAIN won't go away
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The PAIN won't go away
| Mon, 11-15-2004 - 8:20pm |
Hello to all!
I'm sorry if I bore you with the same story or question. I just need to find closure and I can’t find it for some reason. I guess I'm just need to understand why!
I feel in love with someone whom does not care the same for me at all WHY?
I was there all the time for him, I trusted him with all I had. I thought maybe it was the way I looked but if that was the problem then why do so many other men approach me ? It is not them I want I want to be with him yet he wants to be with other females.. I just don’t understand I would of treated him with nothing but love. I used to get up at 3am and go to the store for him if he called me. I know this sounds like I'm just stupid and in a way I guess I can say I was blinded by love. What do I do now how can I just let go and stop thinking of him and crying my self to sleep? How can someone love someone who does not care back? Why does this happen to us who truly care? Any ADVICE PLEASE!!!
I'm sorry if I bore you with the same story or question. I just need to find closure and I can’t find it for some reason. I guess I'm just need to understand why!
I feel in love with someone whom does not care the same for me at all WHY?
I was there all the time for him, I trusted him with all I had. I thought maybe it was the way I looked but if that was the problem then why do so many other men approach me ? It is not them I want I want to be with him yet he wants to be with other females.. I just don’t understand I would of treated him with nothing but love. I used to get up at 3am and go to the store for him if he called me. I know this sounds like I'm just stupid and in a way I guess I can say I was blinded by love. What do I do now how can I just let go and stop thinking of him and crying my self to sleep? How can someone love someone who does not care back? Why does this happen to us who truly care? Any ADVICE PLEASE!!!

Bettina: I have like zip dating experience, I barely dated at all, can count the real dates I had on my 2 hands until I met dh when I was 29, and we were married within 3 months, so don't have the wisdom of solomon on this one.
But for whatever reason, he must not have shared your feelings, so until you find someone that will, love yourself, do special things for yourself. I was reading somewhere in my 12 step stuff, that someone was told to fall in love with themself, so they even sent themselves cards and flowers, maybe that is a tad much, but reach out to any support people you have and know it isn't you, it is his problem and he is the one that missed the boat.
take care, hugs, Josie.