HURT BEYOND MY WILDEST DREAMS

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Registered: 11-08-2004
HURT BEYOND MY WILDEST DREAMS
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Tue, 11-16-2004 - 5:47pm
my father passed away sept. 23, 04, after a extended illness which included dialysis 3 x's a week. I have not always made the best decisions in life, and I am a recovering addict with almost 2 years clean. I have always felt a special bond with my father, even when i dissappointed him the most, i knew he was always there for me. The last year of my dad's life we became almost inseperatable. i drove him 3 x's a week and on his off days we were always running here or there. Well i just found out today that the inheritance was split between 5 of us as i already knew but we all assumed it would be in fair shares, however this was not the case, myself and my younger brother with whom my father was exceptionallly hard on were left to split 25%. I felt as if my father had reached up from the grave and slapped me in the face. which i find also very interesting that my younger brother and i are also the two children who suffer finacially. i know that i have to accept this and go on, but if he haad only left a letter or a will explaining why he did this, my stepmother also knew that this was set up this way but never let us kids know....i feel miserable

mommadukesliz (liz)

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Registered: 03-22-2003
Tue, 11-16-2004 - 8:38pm

Im sorry to hear about your father and sending many hugs your way.

*hugs