Am I safe posting anywhere? (trigs)
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Am I safe posting anywhere? (trigs)
| Sat, 11-20-2004 - 2:23pm |
Three times in recent days, on three different boards (two in ivillage, one elsewhere), someone has ripped into me for expressing my feelings.


((((Mary)))) You post whenever the heck you want. I will read and listen and hug....so there. *sticks out tongue playfully* You are stuck with me. I actually read your posts a lot...you have a lovely way of presenting your thoughts. Of course, that was a nice sentence of mine, if I say so myself. lol
I do look forward to all of you. I am not slighting anyone, but I confess...you are someone I look forward to seeing around. You are genuine and true to yourself. AND if other people can't handle that, that is their tough luck.
*pouting voice* You stay here and play in our sand box. We don't need mean people at all!!!
I am off for a rare date, but I had to post quickly you sounded upset. I can't have that, you are too sweet and awesome to be upset.
Sending hugs and good thoughts your way.
Take care,
Lisa-)
Co-CL Depression Support
PS, it is not a date really...my ex (not the abusive one) and I are watching cycling dvd's
((((((((((BIG HUGS MARY))))))))))
Your not wrong for anything thats what these boards are for, to tell people how you feel. Personally I think those people who posted to you are quite rude to treat you that way, maybe they should go to the being nasty board. I think you are a wonderful person and I always look foward to reading what you have to say (your poems are beautiful too :o). Please don't ever be afraid to share your feelings here, know we all care about you (((HUGS))). Did you read my last post The Best Things In Life? check it out, it may put a little smile on your face. Take care Mary.
Donna :o)
((((Mary))))
I don't know about the other boards, but this board seems to be where it is safe to express our feelings, good or bad. And as for the comment that you "had no right to be still depressed when they're so nice to ", well, that person doesn't understand depression.
Please don't stop sharing your life and feelings in your posts. I look forward to reading your posts everyday!
peace and love,
just_a_big_kid
Sue
peace and love,
just_a_big_kid
Hi there.
Well I have not been on the board that long to know how mean people can get but I see them every day in this world. I think that you should not worrie aobut what people say becasue the board is here for SUPPORT and NOT to judge anyone. I enjoy reading posts and being able to help someone and I dont mind reading the same story over and over as long as it helps someone to let their feelings out ALL IS GOOD.
Just dont worrie about what other people say I know it is hard but trust me it is not worth getting upset or sad over becasue it is just that other person.
Take care and Keep posting for us the once that DO care...
Bettina
Mary: We are here for you 100%, but sometimes other boards just can't handle certain feelings or really open honest sharing.
There is a diet board I have been connected with for over 4 years, but when I am hurting and need mental health help, I come here, I don't post there as they are talking about how to count calories at Thanksgiving so me saying going to my childhood home gives me nightmares is more than they can understand. So not knowing what the other boards are, maybe they are more into lighter subjects, but here, there is no limits on what we listen too.
Take care, hugs, Josie.
Diane