So sad and alone
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So sad and alone
| Mon, 11-22-2004 - 1:03pm |
My boyfriend of a year cheated on me for 6 months. I found out almost 2 weeks ago, and ever since then, I have been unable to eat, all I do is sleep and I just don't smile and laugh anymore like I used too. I am already on mediciation prior to this, but I just don't feel myself coming out of this. I am so upset and sad. I don't understand how he could do it and now he won't even talk to me. I have seen him once since this happened and that made it a bit better but I have not heard from him in 3 days. I miss him so much. All I do is sit and think about what he is doing and who he is with. When I do talk to him, he acts like I did something wrong or he is mad at me. I just need some kind of advice as a better way to deal with this. I can't imagine it going on like this a lot longer, I am so emotionally and physically drained. Pleae help!

Hi I honestly do not think that their will be an easy way to deal with your heartache. There is no cure except for time. I was with someone for 11 yrs and he cheated and I went back and it kept going on. I have been gone for 1yr now and now he spills his love for me.
I think the reason he acts all mad at you is to make it easier on him it is nothing you did it is only to make it easier for him because he knows he is at fault. I just wish I could tell you one thing that will take the hurt away but it is just not that way.
I have wondered the same thing “what is wrong with me?” It is not us honey it is them and their selfishness. I don’t know how to explain why men do what they do but I hope to one day have the answer so I can pass it on. Take care and we are here just to listen and it will help you to get it off you chest. Feel free to e-mail me anytime I don’t mind. I'm going through the same hurt and I know it helps just to get it out and time.
Take care Bettina
PS sorry this is not much but I hope it will help you!