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| Thu, 12-02-2004 - 10:37pm |
Well they are going to pronounce him tonight and donate his organs, his long bone and also eyes, skin and I think anything that can be donated.
On with the saga of his mother. Yesterday he asked his fiance over to "get to know her" Then made her go downstairs in to my brothers room. She proceeded to tell her that she thinks that my brother would have never asked her to marry him. She then told angela that if it had been her in the accident my brother would have moved on the next day because he didnt really love her he just needed to be with someone. She then went on to tell her that she was the reason that she did not have a good relationship with her son for the past 6 months. When in reality she was just trying to have total control over his life instead of letting her grow up normally and move on and get married. I still cant believe she can be so cruel to the woman who loved her son and helped him turn his life around. Angela is the best thing that ever happened to my brother and his mother seemed to need to make her doubt his love for her. I can no longer be sympathetic to a woman who my brother hated.
My brother would tell us all the time how much he hated his mother and we would tell him that you cannot treat your mother that way and that it cant be that bad. After spending a week with this woman and having her tell the nurses my parents werent married and that we were not his real sisters. Then when we thought he was getting better she tried to have us permantly banned. And then when we knew it was the end and people were going in to say goodbye she tried to keep us out again but the nurses, my dad and my sisters rabbi argued for us to be able to say our goodbyes. This woman was that bad and I hope she knows how much my brother really hated her and how much he still hates her for what she is doing to everyone.
Im sorry to go off on this all but Im trying to not let it get to me and its easier to talk to you guys then to my family.
Right now we think that we will have my brother's services monday or tuesday.
Thanks for the support.
Roxanne

(((Roxanne))) All I can tell you is support that sweet woman who was his fiance. Tell here everything you told us. That she was the best thing that ever happened to him. Repeat these things until you have deafened the cruelty of his biological mom.
Sometimes people when they are grieving can be cruel, but this woman does not seem to be going through this, she does seems mean.
I am so sorry for all these dramas that you have to endure. I hope you are giving yourself time to heal from this pain.
Keep us up to date. We are here for you.
Sending hugs and good thoughts your way.
Take care,
Lisa-)
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