so depressed over this

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Registered: 12-12-2004
so depressed over this
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Sun, 12-12-2004 - 12:04pm
my fiance and i have been together for 6 years and we have a 3 year old. in the past three years i have had no sex drive with him. i feel horrible about it. i keep on kicking myself in the butt because i know its me but i dont know what to do. i am only 22 and i know that this cant be normal. i have tried everything imaginable but nothing is working i need some advice before i go crazy. i dont want this relationship to end over something like this!!
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Registered: 01-27-2004
Sun, 12-12-2004 - 12:11pm

(((((Jeska))))), the first thing you need to do is to see your MD to be sure there's no physical cause.

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Registered: 12-12-2004
Sun, 12-12-2004 - 12:25pm
well i did see my md actually like 10 times and they have put me on medication and all sorts of stuff, but none of it worked. i have had many conversations with my therapist but still nothing. in the past year i have worked full time and went to college part time and was a mother. i have had a lot of stress in my life in the past 3 years but my fiance have every friday night alone without my daughter cause her nana watches her but it seems that even when we do have a whole night alone it all is still the same