To end...?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-23-2004
To end...?
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Tue, 12-21-2004 - 4:28pm
Hi all... I had posted a message yesterday about a guy I'm with after my divorce, and how I feel like I'm just making his life miserable. I'm trying to figure out if it would be best for myself and this guy if I end things for awhile while I get things sorted out... I don't want to make us more miserable than we need to be... does anyone have any suggestions? Because of my separating myself and not really being interested in much of anything, it has actually caused him to ask if I may be attracted to females... and he told me not to take offense to that, but I can't help but feeling like he was trying to justify why I wouldn't be responding to him like he wanted me to... I really like him a lot, but I'm not sure I can keep handling things like this.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-04-2004
In reply to: chanasya
Tue, 12-21-2004 - 5:16pm
How long have you been seeing this guy? Does he know what you went through and that you are seeking help? And if not, is he someone you feel you can talk to about this? if you are actually thinking about ending the relationship, and haven't discussed this, maybe you

peace and love,

just_a_big_kid

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-23-2004
In reply to: chanasya
Tue, 12-21-2004 - 5:24pm
He knows everything I've gone through, but sometimes I feel like he doesn't care... I know it's hard for him to understand since he never went through anything like it, but sometimes it's hard to talk to him about it. I have talked about ending it before, and something always happens that makes it hard to.