my life is definitely a soap opera!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2003
my life is definitely a soap opera!!!
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Sun, 12-26-2004 - 4:58pm

ok, i really need to start writing the events of my life down because they are very soap opera like and amusing to the rest of the world (sometimes to me too!)- you guys will not believe this story that happened a few days ago-

ok, so i have been kind of dating someone. i really liked him- but knew that i should try to make that into more of a friendship than dating because he is older than me, we are both just out of serious relationships, and we were very into each other and close but not dating exclusively (won't continue on the details so as to keep this short)- so he lives in my building and i had seen him out this night and we were going to talk later- when i called, the phone picked up but he didn't talk- weird, so i was in my lobby and the doorman had opened the door for me to go to the elevators when i see him walking up holding some girl's hand. he thinks/hopes i don't see him and goes off to one side of the lobby and waits- well, he didn't wait long enough because the three of us ended up in the elevator together! he tried to act so nonchaleant and even introduced us. i was actually laughing on the inside (the fact that she was not cute helped a lot)- when we got to my floor i just patted him on the arm like a guy would and said "you have a good night" and watched his face in horror- i was dying- i have been dating other people too, so there really wasn't any reason he couldn't bring some girl home from the bars, but bad luck to run into me!

so he calls me and text messages me multiple times in like 1/2 hr (which i got in the morning) telling me she was just a friend who wanted to see his place and only stayed for 10 minutes (at 3:30 am on the coldest day of the year? yeah, i'm that stupid) and that there was no need for me to give him a dirty look (didn't think i did). i never called him back. i do miss him though- i was going to tell him we needed to jsut be friends anyways because i thought it was dangerous to be so close and not date- knew one of us would get hurt- both of us already having issues with it. how crazy!

diff topic- today was my last day at work- i loved it there but needed to move on and make money- have interviews next week- cross your fingers for me! hope you are all well- talk to you soon-

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-22-2003
Sun, 12-26-2004 - 5:34pm

Hey VG!

*hugs